I NEED logical support...

[Mister Agenda]

Although it MAY be possible that I didn't make my entrance to the forum in the most courteous way, though I would personally dispute that, I personally consider myself one of the most courteous forum users you can find. Please remember that my grandmother, who I had a very strong bond with, which as a logical person I do not form easily died yesterday...

I'm very sorry for your loss.
The most courteous way to enter any forum that has a section for it is to start an intro thread in which you tell them about yourself. It is perfectly okay in that thread to bring up your loss, but save the challenges for other threads. No one knows how to take your statements if they have no idea who you are or what you're about. At our forum, special rules of extra courtesy apply to intro threads that don't apply to other threads which are assumed to be for discussion, sometimes vigorous discussion.