RE: What do the theists here think about masturbation and porn?
July 12, 2015 at 11:28 am
(This post was last modified: July 12, 2015 at 11:32 am by Whateverist.)
(July 10, 2015 at 10:17 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:(July 10, 2015 at 9:57 pm)whateverist Wrote: In a monogamous, life-time intending relationship you owe it to your partner to be competent at sex. If you don't even take care to learn what works for you, what can you possibly bring to the relationship? If you permit yourself to enjoy sex for its own sake while assiduously timing it to avoid procreation, why not permit yourself the 'practice' which could improve love making with your spouse.
Can't we just practice better love making by making love? Lol. Do we have to practice it by masturbating alone?
There are advantages to going it alone in terms of focus and honest appraisal. It would also give you a chance to see what erotic imagery and narrative arises by really tuning in. Don't let sex be merely a physical thing. The mind is the most important sex organ. The only harm in porn* is that it can smother your own imagination. I wonder what catholic marriage counselors advise?
*Assuming only consenting adults who go into the porn industry for good healthy reasons are used. Hahahahahhahahhah