Damn my libido!

[Anomalocaris]

True. Besides I've tried that. First of all it's false and I'm usually more interesting when I'm not trying to be, secondly no girl finds me interesting either way anyway.

What did you try? Why are you not still trying something else?

Why do you think women aren't interested in you?

Because they never show it and reject me if I ever show it to them. Because they always have a reason to not talk or do anything with me.

You only need a very few who would be different.

Because they say "I don't like you that way".

If they are really totally not interested, why would they bother to tell you this?

"You're just a friend to me".

"You're not my type".

"Just so you know, we're only ever going to be friends and that's it".

So what have you got to lose if you persist?

It would actually help if I had any idea how attractive or unattractive I was. It could explain something.

You think women are objectively analytical machines with secret ability to reference some absolute scale of attractivenss?

I do make an effort. Everyone turns me down.

Make two efforts, or three, or four. If they are really not interested in you, then they are no good for you, and there is no point to being afriad to piss them off or avoid being rejected by them.

I have friends. But no close friends. I never visit anyone and they never visit me.

What do you do when you are around your friends? Why not find more opportunities to get together to do them?

I am widening my social circle, but every friend seems to see me in this exact same way.

Maybe that's because you are subconciously presenting the same side of yourself to them all. Start finding more sides to yourself and reveal them. It's a trial and error process.


There are 3 billion women in the world. You only need one that works for you.