RE: My heart is breaking... I thought Christians are suppose to love "unconditionally"
December 29, 2015 at 12:12 pm
(This post was last modified: December 29, 2015 at 12:25 pm by miaharun.)
I feel so sorry for you. Recently i had a couple very dear to me and they went through something like this,
http://atheistforums.org/thread-40358.html
If one is a theist and the other is not, things are going to get very complicated sooner or later. The whole unconditional love becomes conditional. In very rare cases the theist is tolerant. As some members pointed out, It's her belief that your probably going to hell for not believing. If she is a devoted christian/catholic you or anyone is most probably going to be her number 2 priority. There will be no one above God/Holy Spirit. Any person who doesn't believe in God might be a disgrace to God. This is how i feel seeing my friends who broke up , that was a disaster.
My deepest sympathies dear friend.
EDIT : I think only God is worthy of unconditional love. Because they are said to believe that God will be with them at their worst, unconditionally.
http://atheistforums.org/thread-40358.html
If one is a theist and the other is not, things are going to get very complicated sooner or later. The whole unconditional love becomes conditional. In very rare cases the theist is tolerant. As some members pointed out, It's her belief that your probably going to hell for not believing. If she is a devoted christian/catholic you or anyone is most probably going to be her number 2 priority. There will be no one above God/Holy Spirit. Any person who doesn't believe in God might be a disgrace to God. This is how i feel seeing my friends who broke up , that was a disaster.
My deepest sympathies dear friend.
EDIT : I think only God is worthy of unconditional love. Because they are said to believe that God will be with them at their worst, unconditionally.
"No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path" - Gautama Buddha
