My heart is breaking... I thought Christians are suppose to love "unconditionally"

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I think you should put more stock in yourself MK, and not always be looking for rules from others. I assume you don't go around killing and stoning people, and oppressing women, and if so you've already shown you can think for yourself and not brainlessly follow dogma.

If you ask yourself why you don't do those things, even though the "word of God" says that you should, you'll realise where morality really comes from.