Rape in the Bible

[Nope]

I am pretty certain that this site is not parody. Apparently, the writer believes that rape is not unlawful for a husband but not a wise thing to do. The woman who refuses to have sex is sinful.

http://www.deepstrength.wordpress.com/20...pe-or-not/

Actually he comes to the final conclusion that "forcing sex on the spouse is a sin."

This is what the writer stated that this about marital rape

In summary, regarding the possibility of “forced” sex in a Christian marriage:

One spouse is in sin (the one refusing) and one is not (the one doing the forcing),
but both are not walking according to the Spirit of Christianity and one flesh.

and

f a Christian husband or wife wants to force themselves on their spouse then they are more like a Pharisee (obey the letter of the law) than Jesus (He who embodies the Spirit of the law). As Christians, even though we know it is lawful, we want to be like Jesus.

That’s the reason why forcing sex on the spouse is a sin. It’s a sin of hypocrisy.

So, he definitely believes that refusing sex is a sin so in marital rape, the victim will be at fault for saying no. According to the writer, the attacker may or may not be sinning. He contradicts himself