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Church demands the victim apologize to pastor's wife since the pastor did the rape.
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Church demands the victim apologize to pastor's wife since the pastor did the rape.
Quote:Columbia Road Baptist Church in North Olmsted actually banned a teenage girl and her family from attending services until she apologizes to the wife of the man who sexually abused her.

http://addictinginfo.org/2016/09/09/yout...ists-wife/
"Never trust a fox. Looks like a dog, behaves like a cat."
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RE: Church demands the victim apologize to pastor's wife since the pastor did the rape.
Blaming the victim is usually a part of Stockholm Syndrome, isn't it?

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RE: Church demands the victim apologize to pastor's wife since the pastor did the rape.
I thought Stockholm Syndrome was the victim being incapable of blaming the culprit.
"Never trust a fox. Looks like a dog, behaves like a cat."
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RE: Church demands the victim apologize to pastor's wife since the pastor did the rape.
It wouldn't surprise me if it happened - because people can be shitheads - but as it currently boils down to one person's word against the other with respect to the alleged apology request I'm not gonna assume it went down exactly like either party claims.
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RE: Church demands the victim apologize to pastor's wife since the pastor did the rape.
(September 10, 2016 at 12:59 am)Maelstrom Wrote: I thought Stockholm Syndrome was the victim being incapable of blaming the culprit.

No, it's actually the victim sympathizing with his victimizer -- similar, but not the same. But I was wrong in thinking that one of the mechanisms is blaming the victim. It's often the case in abusive personal relationships (which are a form of SS), and abusive relationships do often involve victim-blaming. Thanks for reminding my to check my resources; I was on my phone earlier and that's why I was uncertain, but I'd forgotten to look into it further until reading this reply.

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RE: Church demands the victim apologize to pastor's wife since the pastor did the rape.
How the fuck does this work... oh for fuck's sake religion is retarded.

BTW Where are all the theists on AF? Am I just blind to them because I'm only seeing what I wanna see because I'm tried of their shit?
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RE: Church demands the victim apologize to pastor's wife since the pastor did the rape.
I think the girl should apologize: 'Mrs. Pastor - I'm truly and deeply sorry that I didn't cut the balls off of your perverted, paedophilliac, rapist husband to prevent his doing to other underage girls what he did to me. I'm also sorry that I belonged to a church whose members did absolutely nothing to prevent this absolute horror of a human being you call a pastor from preying on children.'

Boru
‘I can’t be having with this.’ - Esmeralda Weatherwax
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Church demands the victim apologize to pastor's wife since the pastor did the rape.
(September 10, 2016 at 4:07 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: I think the girl should apologize:  'Mrs. Pastor - I'm truly and deeply sorry that I didn't cut the balls off of your perverted, paedophilliac, rapist husband to prevent his doing to other underage girls what he did to me.  I'm also sorry that I belonged to a church whose members did absolutely nothing to prevent this absolute horror of a human being you call a pastor from preying on children.'

Boru

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I think public castration with a rusty bread knife would be good too  Sad
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RE: Church demands the victim apologize to pastor's wife since the pastor did the rape.
Personally I'd have thought two bricks would be a more appropriate method...
Quote:I don't understand why you'd come to a discussion forum, and then proceed to reap from visibility any voice that disagrees with you. If you're going to do that, why not just sit in front of a mirror and pat yourself on the back continuously?
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RE: Church demands the victim apologize to pastor's wife since the pastor did the rape.
(September 10, 2016 at 12:57 am)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: Blaming the victim is usually a part of Stockholm Syndrome, isn't it?

In this case the Syndrome is simply that Old Time Religion!
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