Not that my opinion matters, but I think that, by far, most of the crap that we are discussing is due to people being sexist assholes. I would not say that you are a love-her-or-hate-her sort of person, and, not really knowing you, I would not say that I love you. But I CERTAINLY do not hate you.
When people treat you differently (and by that, it is almost always badly), you can pretty well be sure that the person is a fucking sexist asshole. If my opinion mattered, I would ask you to come down harder on those sexist assholes.
So, in short, when people are mean to you, I do not think it is generally a clash of personalities. It may be in some cases, but most of the time, I am confident that you are dealing with a shit for brains sexist asshole.
When people treat you differently (and by that, it is almost always badly), you can pretty well be sure that the person is a fucking sexist asshole. If my opinion mattered, I would ask you to come down harder on those sexist assholes.
So, in short, when people are mean to you, I do not think it is generally a clash of personalities. It may be in some cases, but most of the time, I am confident that you are dealing with a shit for brains sexist asshole.
"A wise man ... proportions his belief to the evidence."
— David Hume, An Enquiry Concerning Human Understanding, Section X, Part I.