ok perhaps healing is the wrong word, would resolving be better. I don't think coping is enough. Crying yourself in bed doesn't resolve issues, it just helps to to express those emotions. Once you express you can cope. Neither of those goes to solving the source problem or resolving it. You can be a rage-aholic and not be broken, but it's pretty obvious to most that you have some unresolved issues or powerful chemicals preventing your repeated control of those emotions publicly. Repeated lack of self-control publicly is part of the definition for broken for me and that's why I used it, if there is a better word, I'm down.
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
always working on cleaning my windows- me regarding Johari
always working on cleaning my windows- me regarding Johari