(April 3, 2019 at 6:56 pm)bennyboy Wrote:Love causes a lack of self control to the point where the people involved need help?(April 3, 2019 at 6:09 pm)Gae Bolga Wrote: Same thing you are bud. All those people making terrible mistakes with sexy morons and fucking up their entire lives and wasting their parents investment.
Whole lot easier to call them Chads. You're complaining about Chads and the Stacys who love them. You pick up the lingo when you cross the alt light threshold, after you've been sufficiently -whatever color is trendy- pilled and they reckon they may as well go full money shot.
So I guess you have that to look forward to.
I'm not familiar with those terms. You seem to be directing them negatively toward me-- I know that "mansplaining" is derogatory. But I sincerely don't understand what point you're trying to make.
My point was that the emotion of love is likely to cause people to make poor decisions, because that emotion often involves a loss of self-control-- my general thesis is that ALL emotional motivations, if they get out of hand, are likely to be deleterious-- but that very few people will attempt to seek help for those problems.
That's my response to LFC's question about why people don't seek help. Everyone needs help, because we're all imperfectly in control of our instinctive motivations-- but few see that or if they see it, they prefer to make addressing it part of their path in life instead of going to others for advice.
I don't think you are talking about love.
Still making excuses.
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