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Why does everyone hate me?
#1
Why does everyone hate me?
Okay, so the title was a bit of a dramatization. Cool Shades Most people don't hate me. I don't think. . . :/

To business. . . I've noticed that no matter how nice/brave/supportive/funny I am when talking to people via Emails, forums, and in person, people just tend to not answer anything I send or say and just kind of ignore me. Even when I'm getting along really well with someone, all of a sudden they'll just stop talking to me. I assume I must be doing something wrong, but I lack the perspective to figure out what.

It's been like that for pretty much my entire life. Both online and face to face, people just really don't consider me a friend or boyfriend or anything. People have said that I'm nice, that I'm polite, that I'm a good friend, that they enjoy being around me. But their actions don't reflect that. I'm quite used to it at this point, so I'm not going to get all emotional about it. What I'm wondering is this:

In the time I've been here on this forum, has anything about me just randomly struck you as odd? Do I seem unusual? Granted, I haven't been greatly active on this forum, but maybe I can still learn something from asking this. I really just want to know what it is about me that makes people not care.
What falls away is always, and is near.

Also, I am not pretending to be female, this profile picture is my wonderful girlfriend. XD
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#2
RE: Why does everyone hate me?
(April 1, 2012 at 8:21 pm)Aegrus Wrote: People have said that I'm nice, that I'm polite, that I'm a good friend, that they enjoy being around me.

There you go. Be an asshole, and the world is your oyster. Wink
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#3
RE: Why does everyone hate me?
Quote:In the time I've been here on this forum, has anything about me just randomly struck you as odd?


You mean apart from narcissism? No,you fit right in.Tiger
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#4
Why does everyone hate me?
Tldr





















Sorry, had to. ;p
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#5
RE: Why does everyone hate me?
(April 1, 2012 at 8:36 pm)padraic Wrote:
Quote:In the time I've been here on this forum, has anything about me just randomly struck you as odd?


You mean apart from narcissism? No,you fit right in.Tiger

Really? Do I usually come off as narcissistic, or just in this post?
What falls away is always, and is near.

Also, I am not pretending to be female, this profile picture is my wonderful girlfriend. XD
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#6
RE: Why does everyone hate me?
Sounds like you're suffering from paranoia or depression?

Just be who you are dude. If you try and change the way you are then it's not natural, and you won't feel any better for it (trust me I've tried it myself).
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#7
Why does everyone hate me?
(April 1, 2012 at 8:45 pm)Napoleon Wrote: Just be who you are dude. If you try and change the way you are then it's not natural, and you won't feel any better for it (trust me I've tried it myself).

This. Just be who you are naturally. If someone doesn't like you because of it then they're not worthy to begin with. I don't know you but you seem like a cool dude.
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#8
RE: Why does everyone hate me?
I think you're just reading into things too much.
Even if the open windows of science at first make us shiver after the cozy indoor warmth of traditional humanizing myths, in the end the fresh air brings vigor, and the great spaces have a splendor of their own - Bertrand Russell
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#9
RE: Why does everyone hate me?
+1. Be yourself. Don't worry about it.
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#10
RE: Why does everyone hate me?
Look, thanks to all the replies, but I've been trying to be myself and just not worry about it for 19 years. In that time, I've made literally two friends, most days I don't talk to them, and I've never even had a date. I feel lonely and miserable every day. The "be yourself" sentiment hasn't worked for me so far. I think it's time for a change.
What falls away is always, and is near.

Also, I am not pretending to be female, this profile picture is my wonderful girlfriend. XD
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