A Question for Gay Men

[John V]

I think it is because basically, humans SUCK.

Some do...and if they do it too much they end up with a lisp.

[My imaginary friend is GOD]

Dicks?

Pretty sure alpha male does.

[Cato]

Yep, effeminate heterosexual men exist. Yep, environment may play a part. Nope, growing up as the only male in household is probably not an experience that occurs in heterosexual men who are effeminate frequently enough to be statistically significant. Even if the only effeminate heterosexual men you know of all had the experience of growing up as the only male in the household, to the best of my knowledge, that is just not an experience that is common in heterosexual men who are effeminate.

I don't know if it's common or not with the effeminate male population writ large and I certainly didn't share my experience as a definitive cause considering my limited sample size; merely an observation. If anything I was simply providing an example that further removes the characteristic from the stereotypical assumption of sexual preference.

[My imaginary friend is GOD]

I don't know if it's common or not with the effeminate male population writ large and I certainly didn't share my experience as a definitive cause considering my limited sample size; merely an observation. If anything I was simply providing an example that further removes the characteristic from the stereotypical assumption of sexual preference.

Okay then, I am glad that is the case and have no problem whatsoever with anything you have said now.

[Cato]

I think it is because basically, humans SUCK.

Some do...and if they do it too much they end up with a lisp.

alpha male,
I think you'll find the study referenced in this article interesting...

In a Department of Psychology, University of Georgia, Athens study published on PubMed.gov, the authors come to the conclusion that homophobia is associated with homosexual arousal

http://archives.politicususa.com/2011/12...ousal.html

[John V]

alpha male,
I think you'll find the study referenced in this article interesting...

Why do you think that?

[Cinjin]

I have question for effeminate gay men. Why speak with a lisp? Is there a reason of some kind that you need to emulate a speech impediment?

Because gay men are fucking awesome!

I love the lisp ... never lose the lisp gentlemen!

[FlyingNarwhal]

I do sometimes get bothered by overly effeminate men. I know a few kids that grew up without a male figure in the house and they were certainly effeminate, and I didn't have a problem with them. But there are some gay guys that are just way over the top with it, and it just doesn't seem like it is a completely natural behavior. I'm fine if your gay, I'm fine if your effeminate, but when I get 100% stereotype gay guy it just seems like it's too much. If you wanna suck a dick, whatever I'm cool with it, but suck it like a man.

[My imaginary friend is GOD]

I do sometimes get bothered by overly effeminate men. I know a few kids that grew up without a male figure in the house and they were certainly effeminate, and I didn't have a problem with them. But there are some gay guys that are just way over the top with it, and it just doesn't seem like it is a completely natural behavior. I'm fine if your gay, I'm fine if your effeminate, but when I get 100% stereotype gay guy it just seems like it's too much. If you wanna suck a dick, whatever I'm cool with it, but suck it like a man.

Yep, that may be exactly your opinion.

What is wrong with it is that it should never be a fundamentally bad thing to be "feminine" instead of "masculine". In a perfect world, that would not be the case.

[Psykhronic]

If you wanna suck a dick, whatever I'm cool with it, but suck it like a man.

Who the fuck are you? Seriously, there is something unsettling about people that have a problem with femininity in men. You are not the god of human characteristics and a lisp or feminine flare does absolutely nothing to you or anyone else. So deal with it.

Gay men - suck however the fuck you want.