Why so many "anti-feminists" in the atheist community?

[DespondentFishdeathMasochismo]

I'm sooooo macho. Ugh yeah. Gimme a budwiser.

[God of Mr. Hanky]

These people are starting to seem pretty desperate. It's no wonder they're so aggressive, they must feel backed into a corner, with so many people in disagreement over their beliefs.[...]

Yeah, right. Because when feminism was demanding unprecedented rights for women, like the right to vote and such - there were ALMOST NO PEOPLE in disagreement, right? No - that was a walk in the park. Now, a bunch of frustrated virgins with mommy issues - that's the REAL threat...

Where are all those "many people in disagreement", by the way? Playing "Soggy Biscuit" in their mothers' basements? How come there's one of you in this thread? Are anti-feminists too cowardly to back you up on your crusade against women? Yeah - feminists should be terrified - you guys are real macho social warriors...

HeHawwwww - that is by far the most pitiful excuse for intellectual discussion which you could expect from a loser in any argument anywhere! Just keep on bringing on those misandrist taunts, I haven't laughed hard enough today!

[Edwardo Piet]

These people are starting to seem pretty desperate. It's no wonder they're so aggressive, they must feel backed into a corner, with so many people in disagreement over their beliefs. 

And the biggest psychological projection of the year ward goes to... that's right! Mynameiswaytoofuckinglong!!! *DING DING DING DING DING*

Seriously? You yourself actually do seem pretty damn desperate. No wonder you're so aggressive. You clearly do come across as feeling backed into a corner. And you have had an awful lot of disagreement over your beliefs probably because a lot of them are very bigoted and insulting.

This is your problem. This is it here. These feelings of hate you have for yourself, this pity you have for yourself. You just project it all. The hate gets projected over and over again and then you come over with your false apologies which could very well be your self-pity being projected on to us, and then you go right back to feeling pity for yourself and hating everyone and being a cunt again.

And when you're at your absolute nastiest of all, and most insulting of all, you don't even bother to apologize.

[DespondentFishdeathMasochismo]

You clearly do come across as feeling backed into a corner.

You you know why I get so frustrated with you? Let's get off this exhausting armchair psychologist shtick you're on. Everyone in this thread is an asshole, dealing with you people is nothing like I have delt with before on the internet. Yeah, you don't have to act like you know me, but I have emotions and I'm not always a happy guy. You know what you people have done though? Degraded me, tried to make me feel like shit. It's worked a couple times, I hope you can all have yourselves a good time over that.

[The Valkyrie]

You you know why I get so frustrated with you? Let's get off this exhausting armchair psychologist shtick you're on. Everyone in this thread is an asshole, dealing with you people is nothing like I have delt with before on the internet. Yeah, you don't have to act like you know me, but I have emotions and I'm not always a happy guy. You know what you people have done though? Degraded me, tried to make me feel like shit. It's worked a couple times, I hope you can all have yourselves a good time over that.

So, you've come on here, repeated the SAME crap continuously, insulted anyone who didn't agree with you, and now YOU'RE the victimised one?

Are you sure you're NOT a conservative Christian?

[Homeless Nutter]

My crusade against women 

Yes - your crusade against women . Thanks for suggesting suitable illustration.

[Edwardo Piet]

You you know why I get so frustrated with you? Let's get off this exhausting armchair psychologist shtick you're on.

I wasn't being a psychologist I was giving my opinon based on my own observations.

Maybe if you could do the same without insulting people the atmosphere wouldn't be so shit when you're around.

Everyone in this thread is an asshole, dealing with you people is nothing like I have delt with before on the internet.

It's simply not true that everyone on this thread is an asshole.

Yeah, you don't have to act like you know me, but I have emotions and I'm not always a happy guy.

I know that. I understand that. I don't hate you, I'm sorry I frustrate you, I really am. Not an ounce of sarcasm there. I mean it - really. I would still be trying to help you if I wasn't so disgusted about something you said to someone I care about.

You know what you people have done though? Degraded me, tried to make me feel like shit.

If you were degraded at all it was unintentional. The people here have good intentions. They are not assholes. Please stop insulting people so explicitly and obviously, that is clearly offensive. The fact you interpret some people's intentions in such a way as to see them as degrading you, is in no way of the same caliber of offense as when you go out of your way to be clearly and explicitly insulting.

It's worked a couple times, I hope you can all have yourselves a good time over that.

That's not what we're here for. People are not here to degrade. Please try to interpret people's intentions more positively regardless of what they say unless they're being explicitly insulting and offensive like yourself - But even then, when you do it yourself it makes no sense to expect to get special treatment - I mean, that's what the rules are here for. They can be applied when something obvious has been violated. When it's really vague and subjective and open to interpretation it is not only hard to enforce rules on those matters but it is a waste of time to do so because: First of all everyone interprets vague subjective matters differently when it comes to intentions and the like and, second of all: It's really not worth getting so pissed about shit that can be interpreted in a positive way as much as easily as a negative way. Please stop getting yourself riled up by expecting the worst from people and interpreting the worst in people. It's not healthy and you could just as easily interpret people as having good intentions, so why not do so? Why hurt both yourself and others with negative interpretations of people?

Sometimes you have to be a cynic about cynics. Sure sometimes people are manipulative assholes, but when it comes to cynics who think everyone is like that - I'd question them at least as much as the naive people who think all intentions are innocent. Find the balance, interpret positively when it's an unclear subjective matter. If someone isn't threat you and is unable to betray you or harm you in some serious way - why automatically distrust them in a cynical way just to be careful? Be careful of what? When it's just discussion on a forum, why not just see the good in people as much as you are able to? And if you say you are already doing that, you really aren't trying as hard as you could be on seeing the good in people. Seriously. You can do it. You can see better in people. Please.

I am saying you can, will you ever do so? I don't know if you ever will. But I do think you are capable. Most people are at least capable of seeing the good in people if they try.

TL;DR: Try to see the good in people and stop interpreting everyone's intentions as negative. Sometimes cynicism is unhealthy.

[DespondentFishdeathMasochismo]

You you know why I get so frustrated with you? Let's get off this exhausting armchair psychologist shtick you're on. Everyone in this thread is an asshole, dealing with you people is nothing like I have delt with before on the internet. Yeah, you don't have to act like you know me, but I have emotions and I'm not always a happy guy. You know what you people have done though? Degraded me, tried to make me feel like shit. It's worked a couple times, I hope you can all have yourselves a good time over that.

So, you've come on here, repeated the SAME crap continuously, insulted anyone who didn't agree with you, and now YOU'RE the victimised one?

Are you sure you're NOT a conservative Christian?

You're a bully. I made a conscious decision that this sort of thing wouldn't make me respond with my emotions. I feel a lot more detached and cool when people like you try to degrade me.

[Losty]

So, you've come on here, repeated the SAME crap continuously, insulted anyone who didn't agree with you, and now YOU'RE the victimised one?

Are you sure you're NOT a conservative Christian?

You're a bully. I made a conscious decision that this sort of thing wouldn't make me respond with my emotions. I feel a lot more detached and cool when people like you try to degrade me.

You said you would punch me in the face. Then when confronted about it you said it wasn't even that bad and you didn't even say anything wrong. Now you're calling other people bullies.

[DespondentFishdeathMasochismo]

You're a bully. I made a conscious decision that this sort of thing wouldn't make me respond with my emotions. I feel a lot more detached and cool when people like you try to degrade me.

You said you would punch me in the face. Then when confronted about it you said it wasn't even that bad. And you didn't even say anything wrong. Now you're calling other people bullies.

Yes I did, damn proud of it too. Why should't I be? So you can keep dehumanizing me? Trying to make me feel guilty for the past. Fuck off. Look at the all the comments directed at me. You act like I have mental issues. Does it get more degrading? Why don't you try to amend, if it's so fucking important?