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Being gay is a fetish.
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RE: Being gay is a fetish.
April 17, 2015 at 10:04 pm
(April 17, 2015 at 10:02 pm)Kitan Wrote:
(April 17, 2015 at 9:57 pm)Polaris Wrote: Simple. You A. say fuck off to all the Western societal norms and B. just cuddle up with someone of the same sex and see what happens.

That makes no logical sense.

Only to the close-minded.
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RE: Being gay is a fetish.
April 17, 2015 at 10:04 pm
I don't think Pol or Hey have any fucking clue what sexuality actually is.

You. Don't. Choose. Who. You're. Attracted. To.
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RE: Being gay is a fetish.
April 17, 2015 at 10:05 pm
(April 17, 2015 at 10:04 pm)Polaris Wrote:
(April 17, 2015 at 10:02 pm)Kitan Wrote: That makes no logical sense.

Only to the close-minded.

Would you mind explaining your malfunctioning?
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RE: Being gay is a fetish.
April 17, 2015 at 10:06 pm
(April 17, 2015 at 9:57 pm)Polaris Wrote:
(April 17, 2015 at 9:53 pm)Kitan Wrote: Honestly, how can you choose to be gay?

Simple. You A. say fuck off to all the Western societal norms and B. just cuddle up with someone of the same sex and see what happens.

So are you attracted to men, Pol? I'm seriously asking, it's kinda hard to have this conversation without knowing what happens there from your perspective. See, I'm a bi man, and even I don't get to select which sex I'm more attracted to; I'm stuck being attracted to women on a more consistent basis than I am attracted to men, so when I hear someone else say that it's a literal, conscious choice they make, that's well beyond everything I've experienced and talked about with others, and I know people from every end of the sexual and gender spectrum.
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RE: Being gay is a fetish.
April 17, 2015 at 10:07 pm (This post was last modified: April 17, 2015 at 10:09 pm by Polaris.)
Summer....I can be attracted to both sexes...doesn't fucking affect my fucking choice on sexuality. Are you really bi-sexual or just fucking bull shitting as per your usual?

Well the fact I am OCD keeps me from exploring any gay fantasies.....I can be attracted to certain men, but just thinking of certain sexual activities with either sex is not my style....which is every man's fantasy from what I have heard when it comes to having sex with the opposite sex.
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RE: Being gay is a fetish.
April 17, 2015 at 10:10 pm
...sigh.

What you choose to act on doesn't change your sexuality. It just changes what you act on. If you're attracted to both sexes, then you are bisexual. You don't choose that.
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RE: Being gay is a fetish.
April 17, 2015 at 10:10 pm
(April 17, 2015 at 10:07 pm)Polaris Wrote: I can be attracted to both sexes...doesn't fucking affect my fucking choice on sexuality. Are you really bi-sexual or just fucking bull shitting as per your usual?

What do you mean when you say sexuality? Because in my understanding sexuality is informed by who you're attracted to, not who you act upon that attraction with (you can be a straight man despite engaging in sex with another man, for example).

And yes, I'm bi, with a past romantic history with both sexes.
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RE: Being gay is a fetish.
April 17, 2015 at 10:15 pm
(April 17, 2015 at 10:07 pm)Polaris Wrote: Well the fact I am OCD keeps me from exploring any gay fantasies.....I can be attracted to certain men, but just thinking of certain sexual activities with either sex is not my style....which is every man's fantasy from what I have heard when it comes to having sex with the opposite sex.

Honestly, you lost me here.

I do not understand how being OCD has any impact on your gay fantasies.  In fact, you're confusing OCD with something irrelevant such as to whom you're sexually attracted.  

If you want to be more honest, by all means try without the stupid add ons. 
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RE: Being gay is a fetish.
April 17, 2015 at 10:17 pm (This post was last modified: April 17, 2015 at 10:17 pm by Polaris.)
(April 17, 2015 at 10:04 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: I don't think Pol or Hey have any fucking clue what sexuality actually is.
You. Don't. Choose. Who. You're. Attracted. To.
(April 17, 2015 at 10:15 pm)Kitan Wrote:
(April 17, 2015 at 10:07 pm)Polaris Wrote: Well the fact I am OCD keeps me from exploring any gay fantasies.....I can be attracted to certain men, but just thinking of certain sexual activities with either sex is not my style....which is every man's fantasy from what I have heard when it comes to having sex with the opposite sex.
Honestly, you lost me here.
I do not understand how being OCD has any impact on your gay fantasies.  In fact, you're confusing OCD with something irrelevant such as to whom you're sexually attracted.  
If you want to be more honest, by all means try without the stupid add ons. 

I am OCD, so anal or oral sex do not appeal to me.
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RE: Being gay is a fetish.
April 17, 2015 at 10:20 pm
(April 17, 2015 at 10:17 pm)Polaris Wrote: I am OCD, so anal or oral sex do not appeal to me.

I am further confused. 

Are you so OCD in a special way that only vaginal is a matter of comfort for you?

If you are going to state a resounding positive, then I am going to counter with a resounding fuck you.

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