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RE: Ask a gay
May 17, 2015 at 2:11 am
<3 you kitan <3 yah
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RE: Ask a gay
May 17, 2015 at 2:27 am
What's your opinion on the kinsey scale. Do you meet a lot of guys who are degrees of gay/straight? Is that the same as bi?
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RE: Ask a gay
May 17, 2015 at 10:05 am
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(May 16, 2015 at 11:56 pm)Losty Wrote: I was asking more along the lines of whether or not women have made the request.
They have not, ever. I have honestly never been approached in that manner by a woman.
(May 16, 2015 at 11:57 pm)Jericho Wrote: Why is it that a lot of gay men (at least the ones I've met) tend to be attracted to the younger, typically shy straight men?
Not saying that all are, but if you can shed some light on why I am hit on so much, it would be great.
Thanks!
I cannot speak for other gay men, but it has happened to me where I have fallen for straight guys. I do not fall for every straight guy I see, but just the ones I feel a particular connection toward; one could refer to it as the cliche love at first sight. We are quite aware that we have no future prospects with them, but we will sometimes hurt ourselves in the attempt to get closer to the straight guys. It is a vicious disappointment and quite unhealthy.
I know the questions are for me and not the other way around, but why can't you just be gay or bisexual? xD
(May 17, 2015 at 1:57 am)c172 Wrote: Any opinionon the "butch/femme" dynamic in lesbianism? I used to have two housemates of the former type back in rural NC.
Considering that lesbians are quite as foreign to me as straight men, I cannot properly answer that.
(May 17, 2015 at 2:11 am)dyresand Wrote: <3 you kitan <3 yah
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(May 17, 2015 at 2:27 am)Alex K Wrote: What's your opinion on the kinsey scale. Do you meet a lot of guys who are degrees of gay/straight? Is that the same as bi?
I believe the Kinsey scale is quite accurate, and I have met men who fit all along the spectrum of sexuality.
Bisexuality to me is simply the sexual attraction and sexual interactions with both sexes.
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May 17, 2015 at 12:34 pm
(May 17, 2015 at 10:05 am)Kitan Wrote: (May 17, 2015 at 2:11 am)dyresand Wrote: <3 you kitan <3 yah
Love you, too, Dyre. <3
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May 17, 2015 at 9:07 pm
Personally, every "bisexual" man I've ever come across was actually a gay man, who was just testing the water with "bi" before coming all the way out. I even did that myself at one point. I'm sure there are some genuinely bi men, but only a few of them and most LGBT men are full gay in my experience. That's just my experience so I'm sorry if anyone is offended by that
Bi women are everywhere though, lots more than bi men.
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May 17, 2015 at 9:23 pm
(May 17, 2015 at 9:07 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote: Personally, every "bisexual" man I've ever come across was actually a gay man, who was just testing the water with "bi" before coming all the way out. I even did that myself at one point. I'm sure there are some genuinely bi men, but only a few of them and most LGBT men are full gay in my experience. That's just my experience so I'm sorry if anyone is offended by that
Bi women are everywhere though, lots more than bi men.
Well i am BI one of my friends calls me a greedy bastard  
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May 17, 2015 at 9:25 pm
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I know some do exist yes, that's not to say you don't, and no I don't think it's greedy, that's a stupid thing to say I'm just saying a lot of "bi" men in my experience it's just a "half-out" phase where they'll go on to come out full gay later.
Actually I do tell a lie when I say "every", there was one guy I met recently I think is genuinely bi. But no most I've met are gay, really haha
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RE: Ask a gay
May 18, 2015 at 9:43 am
(May 17, 2015 at 10:05 am)Kitan Wrote: I know the questions are for me and not the other way around, but why can't you just be gay or bisexual? xD
It's funny that you say that, because I have been asked that before. The answer is actually quite simple. I am just not sexually attracted to men at all.
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RE: Ask a gay
May 18, 2015 at 9:45 am
You're just not trying hard enough, Jericho
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May 18, 2015 at 10:36 am
(May 16, 2015 at 9:14 pm)Saxmoof Wrote: There does seem to be something about masculinity that makes people personally offended somehow by other peoples lack of it, in a way that i'm not sure exists between straight women and lesbians, i don't think it's entirely down to repressed gay urges
Good point. I've never been able to puzzle that out. Lesbians aren't threatening to me, but many men seem threatened by gay men.
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