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My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
#21
RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
It's fucking difficult and I'm a stupid bitch with a horrible personality Sad(((((((((

I hope you know though, I'm completely different in person. Very shy, I never talk. If I do talk I try to be friendly, unless I'm somewhere I don't want to be, like school. Tbh my bad side comes out mostly when I don't want to be somewhere.
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#22
RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
This can't be real...

Am I on Candid Internet?

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Nolite te bastardes carborundorum.
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#23
RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
Why is it that you want a relationship again? Because what you seem to be saying is "I don't want no relationships"
The fool hath said in his heart, There is a God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
Psalm 14, KJV revised edition

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#24
RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
(November 30, 2015 at 1:46 am)Quantum Wrote: Why is it that you want a relationship again? Because what you seem to be saying is "I don't want no relationships"

I want affection, I want companionship, I want to feel loved. 

I know that people generally dislike me, which is one of the reason my absolute fucking hatred for people grows. It's why extreme music sounds so good.
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#25
RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
(November 30, 2015 at 1:49 am)DespondentFishdeathMasochismo Wrote:
(November 30, 2015 at 1:46 am)Quantum Wrote: Why is it that you want a relationship again? Because what you seem to be saying is "I don't want no relationships"

I want affection, I want companionship, I want to feel loved. 

I know that people generally dislike me, which is one of the reason my absolute fucking hatred for people grows. It's why extreme music sounds so good.
I see.

But, nah, extreme music also sounds good if you don't hate people Smile
The fool hath said in his heart, There is a God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
Psalm 14, KJV revised edition

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#26
RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
I'm so tired right now. Maybe that's why I feel perpetually unhappy and angry. Good night.
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#27
RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
Heh. Luck with that. Your attitude is really going to help.
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#28
RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
(November 30, 2015 at 1:32 am)DespondentFishdeathMasochismo Wrote: Oh my god, talking to people is just tiring.

Then why do you want a relationship? Making a real relationship work takes a lot of talking.

(November 30, 2015 at 1:32 am)DespondentFishdeathMasochismo Wrote: Just abuse me as much as possible with your words, I don't care. You have no idea how frustrating it is to get along with people, it's like the number one fucking difficulty in my life, besides giving a fuck about school work.

<looks at thread title> Nope, I'm not getting it.

(November 30, 2015 at 1:32 am)DespondentFishdeathMasochismo Wrote: I just wish I didn't have to feel like life is so fucking difficult, I feel like my anxiety would mostly go away.

It could, young man, if only you'd loosen your embrace. Lighten up. The world won't end if you don't have a relationship. Take care of Maslow's pyramid, stop worrying about how you come across to others. Be yourself, and do things you like to do. You will at that point meet people who have at least one thing in common with you, though they may or may not like you. All you're doing is evening the odds, okay? Understand that you won't like everyone you meet, and not everyone will like you, and that's okay. There's no law saying people have to like you, no law saying you have to like them, and no way you will ever find happiness so long as you're so goddamned afraid. You will get hurt. You will get pissed. You will get happy, too.

Let go of your fears and anxieties. Be considerate of your fellow human. Speak the truth as you sense it, while at the same time remembering that your truth can hurt other people. Should probably avoid wearing trenchcoats or sunglasses at night (not that you do, just covering all the bases).

Brooding loners don't get laid, but social skills can be learnt. Do you want to learn, or do you want to wallow? I don't often agree with him, but KUSA is right; it's not hard to find yourself in a relationship. You have to put yourself in a position where your good qualities shine, and where the people with whom you wish relations are present. And you have to be unafraid.

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#29
RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
That is all? Sounds real easy, Thump... Tongue
The fool hath said in his heart, There is a God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
Psalm 14, KJV revised edition

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#30
RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
(November 30, 2015 at 1:38 am)DespondentFishdeathMasochismo Wrote: It's fucking difficult and I'm a stupid bitch with a horrible personality Sad(((((((((

I hope you know though, I'm completely different in person. Very shy, I never talk. If I do talk I try to be friendly, unless I'm somewhere I don't want to be, like school. Tbh my bad side comes out mostly when I don't want to be somewhere.

Then let's start with the basics. Why don't you try being like you are in real life here on line -- the friendly part, not the not-talking part, I'm not trying to be a dick here. But no one can help you with any sort of personal issue unless they know the real person you are.

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