Sex with a transsexual.

[Darwins Disciple]

Would?.....already have. Before judgement is cast, let me explain circumstance.

I worked in Thailand for several years. In Thailand, a non-Christianity society, Buddhism results in a very tolerant society that permits a 3rd gender, called Ladyboys (or Katoey). It becomes very confusing for the heterosexual male when confronted with an extremely attractive Ladyboy, that by all measures, is beautiful. I have learned, that in Thailand, if a women is too beautiful to be a women,...it may just be the case.

Sometimes it is not possible to tell the difference. Transsexuals in Thailand are on a much higher level sophistication then the West. It is not simply some guy with a wig. Example: I consider myself heterosexual and a good eye to spot a ladyboy, or so I thought. I met a 'lady' at a disco and hooked up. She had long hair, natural breasts, feminine qualities, and real parts.  There were a couple of odd things that created a slight doubt. (1) During sex, it felt like I was bottoming out, or hitting a wall.  (2) She was much more uninhibited to do acts that males enjoy, rather than a typical women. Example: She said, "you can have sex with me anytime, its OK." Also the way she performed appeared to have a good understanding of what a male likes. (3) the clit was slightly larger than normal.

I was informed several days later that she was a Labyboy. I was in denial, and thought: not possible. (real life movie: Hangover II). She had real breasts. Answer, they take female hormones and grow breasts. I asked she had real parts. Answer: I was informed she had surgery in which the skin from the penis is used to build a fake female part. It was also explained that if the partner was more physically endowed then the Ladyboy, you would hit a wall.

Until I found out she was a ladyboy, I would have rated the experience as excellent. I challenge any heterosexual male to go to Thailand, be confronted by extremely sexy and beautiful Ladyboys, and admit that no temptation.

[rexbeccarox]

Would?.....already have. Before judgement is cast, let me explain circumstance.

I worked in Thailand for several years. In Thailand, a non-Christianity society, Buddhism results in a very tolerant society that permits a 3rd gender, called Ladyboys (or Katoey). It becomes very confusing for the heterosexual male when confronted with an extremely attractive Ladyboy, that by all measures, is beautiful. I have learned, that in Thailand, if a women is too beautiful to be a women,...it may just be the case.

Sometimes it is not possible to tell the difference. Transsexuals in Thailand are on a much higher level sophistication then the West. It is not simply some guy with a wig. Example: I consider myself heterosexual and a good eye to spot a ladyboy, or so I thought. I met a 'lady' at a disco and hooked up. She had long hair, natural breasts, feminine qualities, and real parts.  There were a couple of odd things that created a slight doubt. (1) During sex, it felt like I was bottoming out, or hitting a wall.  (2) She was much more uninhibited to do acts that males enjoy, rather than a typical women. Example: She said, "you can have sex with me anytime, its OK." Also the way she performed appeared to have a good understanding of what a male likes. (3) the clit was slightly larger than normal.

I was informed several days later that she was a Labyboy. I was in denial, and thought: not possible. (real life movie: Hangover II). She had real breasts. Answer, they take female hormones and grow breasts. I asked she had real parts. Answer: I was informed she had surgery in which the skin from the penis is used to build a fake female part. It was also explained that if the partner was more physically endowed then the Ladyboy, you would hit a wall.

Until I found out she was a ladyboy, I would have rated the experience as excellent. I challenge any heterosexual male to go to Thailand, be confronted by extremely sexy and beautiful Ladyboys, and admit that no temptation.

Why would anyone judge you, and why finding out that she was born with a penis make the experience any less phenomenal?

[Losty]

Why refer to her as a "ladyboy" ugh

[Edwardo Piet]

No matter what you think of a previous experience, that will never change the actual experience, only the memory of it. If the experience was phenomenal at the time it was phenomenal at the time. If you discover someone has a penis after enjoying your experience with them you can't pretend you didn't enjoy your experience with the "ladyboy" after the experience has already happened.

[vorlon13]

Why refer to her as a "ladyboy" ugh

as I recall from the account, that's the translation of the Thai word for it.

There have been quite a few interesting bits of terminology over the years for various perceived types.

I recall having quite a yuck when I was in college and heard the term 'Urning'.

'Uranian' wasn't much of an improvement . . .

Not a sexual identity term, but the Native American term of 'heyoka' translates out as 'sacred fool'.  I'm familiar with an actual 'heyoka' person, and to me, 'sacred fool' definitely is a fucked up translation.  I felt 'Contrary' was better for a while, but it doesn't fully get you there either.  I tend to say 'heyoka' now.

To cite a couple examples from cinema; Younger Bear in Little Bigman was a heyoka.  To me, John Dunbar was clearly presented as one in Dances With Wolves, and that explains the acceptance of the nearby tribe for him and their curiosity about him.

If you're familiar with both characters, you're probably thinking WTF do they have in common, well, you're a little closer to understanding the term 'heyoka' now.

[thesummerqueen]

As you wish.

I'm not nearly hairy enough for you, good sir, I make sure of that.

I choked on my water and then laughed like hell reading that.


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Sex is sex is sex is sex. If you're turning me on and know how to use a flogger, s'alright.

[Darwins Disciple]

Would?.....already have. Before judgement is cast, let me explain circumstance.

I worked in Thailand for several years. In Thailand, a non-Christianity society, Buddhism results in a very tolerant society that permits a 3rd gender, called Ladyboys (or Katoey). It becomes very confusing for the heterosexual male when confronted with an extremely attractive Ladyboy, that by all measures, is beautiful. I have learned, that in Thailand, if a women is too beautiful to be a women,...it may just be the case.

Sometimes it is not possible to tell the difference. Transsexuals in Thailand are on a much higher level sophistication then the West. It is not simply some guy with a wig. Example: I consider myself heterosexual and a good eye to spot a ladyboy, or so I thought. I met a 'lady' at a disco and hooked up. She had long hair, natural breasts, feminine qualities, and real parts.  There were a couple of odd things that created a slight doubt. (1) During sex, it felt like I was bottoming out, or hitting a wall.  (2) She was much more uninhibited to do acts that males enjoy, rather than a typical women. Example: She said, "you can have sex with me anytime, its OK." Also the way she performed appeared to have a good understanding of what a male likes. (3) the clit was slightly larger than normal.

I was informed several days later that she was a Labyboy. I was in denial, and thought: not possible. (real life movie: Hangover II). She had real breasts. Answer, they take female hormones and grow breasts. I asked she had real parts. Answer: I was informed she had surgery in which the skin from the penis is used to build a fake female part. It was also explained that if the partner was more physically endowed then the Ladyboy, you would hit a wall.

Until I found out she was a ladyboy, I would have rated the experience as excellent. I challenge any heterosexual male to go to Thailand, be confronted by extremely sexy and beautiful Ladyboys, and admit that no temptation.

Why would anyone judge you, and why finding out that she was born with a penis make the experience any less phenomenal?

When I was younger and influenced by other people's opinions, I was concerned to fit in to the society's norms, thus cared how I was judged. At my age now, I am less concerned and do not care what other people do, as long as it is not hurting anyone.

I related my experience. I would like to hear the opinion from someone else that had an experience. Speak up.

[KUSA]

Uh, no.  I'm a little too old-fashioned for that.

But live-and-let-live, I say.

I'd bone you if you had a sex change.

[Spirian]

Nope. Preference only - no prejudice.

[I_am_not_mafia]

If you're turning me on and know how to use a flogger, s'alright.

I use four at the same time. Two in each hand, each held by different fingers in a continuous movement.

I'm also pretty good with wooden spoons and spatulas.