I wish...

[chasm]

I wish my parents would die. Like, right now. I hate them so much. :/ Is that bad?

[Edwardo Piet]

Nah. Wishes never got anyone anywhere directly

[Shinylight]

Why do you wish your parents would die?

[Darwinian]

I wish my parents would die. Like, right now. I hate them so much. :/ Is that bad?

It would be difficult to describe it as good :S

[LastPoet]

Yes, it would be difficult to classify as a good thing. But why do you wish so, chasm?

[Tiberius]

I suppose it depends on what they've done. I don't see anything wrong in wishing people would die; it's not like my wish is going to affect them in anyway (unless they know, then it might upset them).

[downbeatplumb]

I wish my parents would die. Like, right now. I hate them so much. :/ Is that bad?

Alex is that you?

Mys son regularly wishes me and my wifes demise. Normally at bedtime.

[darkwolf176]

What are your reasons? They might be justified.

[chasm]

Everyone seems to want to know my reasons. They aren't easy to explain, but there is a lot of bitterness there. My dad was never home and my mom was always drunk when I was growing up, so it's probably resentment from that. It's also the fact that I don't like them as people. They have very bad personalities. I also think it's because they never helped me through my cancer, it was my aunt and uncle who did that. Recently, since I was about 17, my parents have tried to actively become a part of my life and I don't want them to be, because I've finally gotten away, and they won't leave me alone. I just don't like them at all.

A couple of you were saying it's not a good thing, and that's probably because they're my parents. I'm the kind of person that doesn't think blood ties have anything to do with me liking you or not. I don't think they're good people, and I don't want them in my life. I guess I should have worded it a little differently and said "out of my life" rather than "dead". I don't mean it literally. I wish death on no one. I would just rather have it so that it seemed like they died, and I could live in peace.

[LastPoet]

I accept why you feel that way chasm, still doesn't feel like a good thing, to wish someone dead, because it implies resentment and unfinished issues. My parents are major screwups, but I dont wish them dead, well, they are irrelevant to me. I get along with them, but as soon as they cross the line trying to tell me what to do, I just drop the hammer.

Anyways you have plenty of reasons to feel the way you do, but thinking that will only make YOU suffer, and it ain't worth it!