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Poll: Monogamous or not
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monogamous
76.92%
30 76.92%
not monogamous
15.38%
6 15.38%
some other description
7.69%
3 7.69%
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Monogamous or not.
#31
RE: Monogamous or not.
(June 6, 2016 at 4:26 am)MJ the Skeptical Wrote: If you're a non-monogamous guy, you're basically spraying pussy repellent on yourself, it is what it is.
It's actually monogamous pussy repellent. :-)
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#32
RE: Monogamous or not.
(June 5, 2016 at 10:41 pm)Losty Wrote:
(June 5, 2016 at 10:39 pm)Chad32 Wrote: I personally don't really do anything. Because I'm a loner who doesn't really know how to socialize properly anymore. So yeah. Kind of a downer, but there you go.

* Losty pats Chad's shoulder awkwardly

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#33
RE: Monogamous or not.
Serial monogamist. Third marriage now. In between marriages there were longer term relationships. Just not wired to hook with more than one person at a time.

I must have an expiration date. After 7 to 10 years the previous ones have ended. Coming up on that threshold in this marriage. Going to have to wait and see.
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#34
RE: Monogamous or not.
(June 5, 2016 at 11:01 pm)ignoramus Wrote: Omnigamist?

A origamist? Isn't that someone who folds their tongue during oral sex?

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#35
RE: Monogamous or not.
Sexually monogamous for the last 25 years or so (we call it marriage). Before that monogamously married for seven years. Before that I had an overlapping series of open relationships with between two and four guys. Open is great when young single and not looking for marriage provided everyone knows what's going on. It isn't horribly stable though and more than one serious relationship requires a heck of a lot of time and effort.. Eventually stability was more important. Staying monogamous hasn't been hard. I still like to flirt though.
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#36
RE: Monogamous or not.
(June 5, 2016 at 10:39 pm)Chad32 Wrote: I personally don't really do anything. Because I'm a loner who doesn't really know how to socialize properly anymore. So yeah. Kind of a downer, but there you go.

Aww. What you have there is absolute monagomy. This too shall pass. We introverts unite in pairs. More is too much.
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#37
RE: Monogamous or not.
(June 6, 2016 at 2:50 pm)Jenny A Wrote:
(June 5, 2016 at 10:39 pm)Chad32 Wrote: I personally don't really do anything. Because I'm a loner who doesn't really know how to socialize properly anymore. So yeah. Kind of a downer, but there you go.

Aww.  What you have there is absolute monagomy.   This two shall pass. We introverts unite in pairs.  More is too much.

Thanks.
Poe's Law: "Without a winking smiley or other blatant display of humor, it is impossible to create a parody of Fundamentalism that SOMEONE won't mistake for the real thing."

10 Christ-like figures that predate Jesus. Link shortened to Chris ate Jesus for some reason...
http://listverse.com/2009/04/13/10-chris...ate-jesus/

Good video to watch, if you want to know how common the Jesus story really is.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88GTUXvp-50

A list of biblical contradictions from the infallible word of Yahweh.
http://infidels.org/library/modern/jim_m...tions.html

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#38
RE: Monogamous or not.
If we are talking relationships I think whether monogamous or non-monogamous the best relationships are ones where no one feels pressured and everyone involved is free to end the relationship at any point but no one wants to because everyone (whether two or more people, open or closed relationship) loves being in the relationship too much.

Trust plus mutual appreciation minus the pressure is nice when it happens I am sure Smile
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#39
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RE: Monogamous or not.
(June 6, 2016 at 6:10 am)paulpablo Wrote:
(June 6, 2016 at 4:26 am)MJ the Skeptical Wrote: If you're a non-monogamous guy, you're basically spraying pussy repellent on yourself, it is what it is.

Surly if you live a non monogamous lifestyle by definition you're coming into close proximity with at least 2 vaginas.

I was referring to the process of finding like-minded people being limited. Did you get that or was this sarcasm I missed?
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#40
RE: Monogamous or not.
(June 6, 2016 at 8:08 pm)MJ the Skeptical Wrote:
(June 6, 2016 at 6:10 am)paulpablo Wrote: Surly if you live a non monogamous lifestyle by definition you're coming into close proximity with at least 2 vaginas.

I was referring to the process of finding like-minded people being limited. Did you get that or was this sarcasm I missed?

Being non monogamous by definition means you're in closer proximity to more vaginas than if you were monogamous.

So sarcasm involved or not, being monogamous is the lifestyle where you're in a very real sense repelling vaginas (except the one you're having sex with.)

If you're purposefully monogamous you're repelling, or at least avoiding contact in a very real physical and psychological way with all over vaginas except one.

If you're non monogamous finding like minded people really isn't that hard.  With the internet it's basically like shooting fish in a barrel, before the internet I remember nightclubs having a fairly high percentage of non monogamous people. 

Yeh if you walk around with a T shirt that says "PUSSAYYY PATROL!!" and you brag to every female you're trying to get with about how many other females you've been with your chances of success will be very highly diminished when trying to chat to girls in the local library.  But just in general it's not that difficult to be non monogamous and not repel women, in my experience. I admit it is all subjective to circumstances.


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