Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...

[J a c k]

((((Hugs))))

Perhaps it's time for a restraining order?

Yes. Looking into it. He already made some serious threats.

[Crossless2.0]

Hugs for Mamacita and Nymphadora. So sorry you're going through it, ladies.

[Joods]

((((Hugs))))

Perhaps it's time for a restraining order?

Yes. Looking into it. He already made some serious threats.

He sounds like a real winner

I certainly hope you can get rid of this guy.

[Joods]

Thanks C1. That means a lot.

[Thumpalumpacus]

'Cita and Nymph both ... hang in there. This too will pass. It will. Hugs to you both.

[Crossless2.0]

Thanks C1. That means a lot.

Trump has me so fucked up these days that before I extended the virtual hug I actually thought about it for a moment, wondering if it was a tad too forward and creepy. Lol.

I meant well. I hope the best for you and Mamacita.

[Joods]

Thanks Thump

[Thumpalumpacus]

Having witnessed that bullshit last night, I can only say I feel for you, hon.

I only hope he learns one day how wrong what he did was ... first-hand.

[Joods]

He won't learn. And that makes him dangerous. He is past the point where he should be given a pass for the shit he says. By anyone. There is absolutely no excusing an individual who blatantly chooses to cause emotional harm to another human being.

[LadyForCamus]

CIJS -

It stung. Badly. Itnless you've lived through it, you have no idea of the sort of impact that had on me. Your words resurfaced all the guilt and horror and shame I had left behind long ago. How dare you. How dare you take someone's personal story and twist it to suit your own demented agenda. Was I triggered? Fuck yes I was. I have PTSD. That is well known. And for you to do what you did to me, and trivialize what I went through and have the sheer nerve to blame ME for what happened, was more than just disgusting. It was vile and mean and sick. Not to mention completely uncalled for. And then you further dug that knife in and actually suggested, in so many words that I was selfish for not thinking of anyone else? Fuck you, you god damn, mother fucking, crusty, twat waffle.

I was going to leave this place. But the people who kindly reached out to me, have convinced me that I matter. No, I won't run from this. I will stand my ground. But understand this much, the next time a hurricane blows through your fucking backyard, I hope it takes you and drags you out to sea, destroys your home, your business and tears your family apart. I hope the losses you suffer are so severe that you are in constant torment for the rest of your natural born life.

I can and will gladly have respect, compassion and empathy for anyone, even those I don't mesh well with - until they do me dirty as you have done. Then all bets are off. You crossed a fucking line. Don't expect me to play nice if you are allowed to stay. And if I get banned for saying what I have, so be it. I really don't give a flying fuck anymore. What you said was just deplorable. You aren't human. You aren't decent. You lack so many things that normal people possess, it's actually quite fucking pathetic.

You called him a "crusty, twat waffle."   You win.