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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 6, 2018 at 8:31 pm
(January 6, 2018 at 8:21 pm)Joods Wrote: (January 6, 2018 at 8:11 pm)Haipule Wrote: Aloha Catholic_Lady: Really? With your beautiful eyes, beautiful mouth, glorious hair and scrumptious long neck? Really?
You do realize that CL is more than her looks, right?
Why do men continue to objectify women this way?
People are shitty.
I agree though, that shit's dumb, personality's where it's at yoooooooo
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 6, 2018 at 8:36 pm
(January 6, 2018 at 8:21 pm)Joods Wrote: (January 6, 2018 at 8:11 pm)Haipule Wrote: Aloha Catholic_Lady: Really? With your beautiful eyes, beautiful mouth, glorious hair and scrumptious long neck? Really?
You do realize that CL is more than her looks, right?
Why do men continue to objectify women this way?
(January 6, 2018 at 7:19 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: You deserve so much better. Thank you for loving me anyway.
I'm here if you need to talk  "You do realize that CL is more than her looks, right?"
Yes! And from the posts I've read of hers, her beauty goes clear down to the bone!
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 6, 2018 at 9:37 pm
(January 6, 2018 at 7:19 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: You deserve so much better. Thank you for loving me anyway.
This tugged at my heart. I wish you didn’t feel that way.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 6, 2018 at 9:56 pm
Thank you. I guess the thing is that if he had married someone else he wouldn't be going through this, because it's happening because of me. He deserves better than this.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 6, 2018 at 10:15 pm
(January 6, 2018 at 9:56 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Thank you. I guess the thing is that if he had married someone else he wouldn't be going through this, because it's happening because of me. He deserves better than this.
If he had married someone else, he wouldn’t have you. Look, I’m not a love expert, but I have an idea of how it feels to want nothing else than to hold someone, but you can’t. I would have given anything to have them with me, to hold them, to talk with them, to tell them how I felt to their face and fuck everything else. If I had the chance, I would have taken it. No matter the consequences. Even if it meant sacrificing other things that could be nice, but not sufficient. When you feel that way about someone, you choose them knowingly. You know what it means and you’re fine with it, because damn! Not having them is worse! Not having them makes everything else vapid. Tasteless. Just meaningless. Yeah, you can find someone else, but you don’t want them. They’re never good enough, because that person you want is sitting over there and you can’t stop needing to hold them. Fuck, CL. He loves you. You’re everything to him. That’s what matters. You need to know your worth and understand that all the extra things are insignificant when they compare to not having you. I hope you can accept that one day and love yourself much more, too.
Sorry for being nosey. I just felt sad with your post.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 6, 2018 at 10:20 pm
(January 6, 2018 at 9:56 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Thank you. I guess the thing is that if he had married someone else he wouldn't be going through this, because it's happening because of me. He deserves better than this.
Oh, stop blaming yourself. Ya know stress hormones can make things worse.
If you told him this I'll bet he'd kick your ass. (not literally, maybe just a good spanking)
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 6, 2018 at 10:48 pm
(January 6, 2018 at 10:20 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: (January 6, 2018 at 9:56 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Thank you. I guess the thing is that if he had married someone else he wouldn't be going through this, because it's happening because of me. He deserves better than this.
Oh, stop blaming yourself. Ya know stress hormones can make things worse.
If you told him this I'll bet he'd kick your ass. (not literally, maybe just a good spanking)
...perhaps the way she likes it.  Which, incidentally leaves a LOT of latitude. If you are doing your best in your marriage, that's all that can be asked. I know where he is going shortly, and you have a right to be concerned. But maybe not in the way you expect. Please just be there for him. Based on what I've seen on-screen, he could do WAY worse. Chin up!
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 6, 2018 at 11:40 pm
(January 6, 2018 at 7:19 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: You deserve so much better. Thank you for loving me anyway.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 7, 2018 at 12:38 am
CIJSAIBH, you're a cool guy and all, but this was a bit disrespectful on your part. Just because I was away for three weeks doesn't mean you can just comfortably park your car with a quarter of it occupying my parking spot, not expecting me to come back to the apartment late last night. I had to illegally park my car on the lawn because of that. Thank you for noticing my car and fixing your parking this morning, anyhow.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
January 7, 2018 at 1:53 am
Quote:Thank you. I guess the thing is that if he had married someone else he wouldn't be going through this, because it's happening because of me. He deserves better than this.
Nonsense. We may not always see eye to eye . But he would be a fool to wish for anything less then a woman of your caliber.
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