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RE: are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?
August 9, 2016 at 12:50 pm
(August 9, 2016 at 12:49 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: (August 9, 2016 at 12:48 pm)Iroscato Wrote: Holding a cork tightly over the bottle doesn't mean yer champagne's not ready to go. Asexuality is where your bottle is empty and there is no need to hold the cork on in the first place 
Talk to many asexuals, did you? Didn't think so, bud.
There it is again. Try talking to people as equals instead of talking down to them.
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RE: are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?
August 9, 2016 at 12:52 pm
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(August 9, 2016 at 12:48 pm)Iroscato Wrote: (August 9, 2016 at 12:43 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: I guess, for some people. this is a really important subject. It's like preaching atheism in a church.
Holding a cork tightly over the bottle doesn't mean yer champagne's not ready to go. Asexuality is where your bottle is empty and there is no need to hold the cork on in the first place I have a very healthy sexual drive. I just don't like to flaunt it online, unlike some people. I find that tasteless and unattractive.
I am also perfectly able to ignore my sexual drives, as well as a certain range of my feelings. This is not something I do on a regular basis, nor something that affects my behaviour in any significant way(unless I let it). It's just a mental skill that is very useful. People who don't have it will never understand it.
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RE: are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?
August 9, 2016 at 12:53 pm
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(August 9, 2016 at 12:50 pm)FatAndFaithless Wrote: (August 9, 2016 at 12:49 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: Talk to many asexuals, did you? Didn't think so, bud.
There it is again. Try talking to people as equals instead of talking down to them.
Just a tip.
I'll talk to you however I want. If you don't like me, report me for being condescending. An unanimous vote from staff and I'm out of here. Otherwise, leave me alone. Thanks.
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RE: are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?
August 9, 2016 at 12:53 pm
(August 9, 2016 at 12:52 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: (August 9, 2016 at 12:48 pm)Iroscato Wrote: Holding a cork tightly over the bottle doesn't mean yer champagne's not ready to go. Asexuality is where your bottle is empty and there is no need to hold the cork on in the first place I have a very healthy sexual drive. I just don't like to flaunt it online, unlike some people. I find that tasteless and unattractive.
I am also perfectly able to ignore my sexual drives, as well as a certain range of my feelings. This is not something I do on a regular basis, nor something that affects my behaviour in any significant way. It's just a mental skill that is very useful. People who don't have will never understand it.
And I can see how that's a useful 'skill', but that's not being asexual.
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RE: are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?
August 9, 2016 at 12:53 pm
(August 9, 2016 at 12:53 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: (August 9, 2016 at 12:50 pm)FatAndFaithless Wrote: There it is again. Try talking to people as equals instead of talking down to them.
Just a tip.
I'll talk to you however I want. If you don't like me, report me for being condescending. A majority vote from staff and I'm out of here. Otherwise, leave me alone. Thanks.
Well, being condescending isn't against the rules. I just don't like it when folks talk down to other folks for no reason.
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RE: are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?
August 9, 2016 at 12:54 pm
(August 9, 2016 at 12:53 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: (August 9, 2016 at 12:50 pm)FatAndFaithless Wrote: There it is again. Try talking to people as equals instead of talking down to them.
Just a tip.
I'll talk to you however I want. If you don't like me, report me for being condescending. An unanimous vote from staff and I'm out of here. Otherwise, leave me alone. Thanks.
Guys, guys..simple solution.
Ignore lists.
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RE: are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?
August 9, 2016 at 12:54 pm
The whole point is you can repress your sex drive but that isn't 'becoming asexual'.
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RE: are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?
August 9, 2016 at 12:55 pm
(August 9, 2016 at 12:54 pm)Bella Morte Wrote: (August 9, 2016 at 12:53 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: I'll talk to you however I want. If you don't like me, report me for being condescending. An unanimous vote from staff and I'm out of here. Otherwise, leave me alone. Thanks.
Guys, guys..simple solution.
Ignore lists.
*Shrugs* I've got two folks on ignore, but EP isn't one of them. He posts some good stuff sometimes, just some other times his tone is pretty shitty.
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RE: are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?
August 9, 2016 at 12:56 pm
(August 9, 2016 at 12:55 pm)FatAndFaithless Wrote: (August 9, 2016 at 12:54 pm)Bella Morte Wrote: Guys, guys..simple solution.
Ignore lists.
*Shrugs* I've got two folks on ignore, but EP isn't one of them. He posts some good stuff sometimes, just some other times his tone is pretty shitty.
Fair enough.
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RE: are there any girls in the world that like shy guys?
August 9, 2016 at 12:56 pm
(August 9, 2016 at 12:53 pm)FatAndFaithless Wrote: (August 9, 2016 at 12:52 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: I have a very healthy sexual drive. I just don't like to flaunt it online, unlike some people. I find that tasteless and unattractive.
I am also perfectly able to ignore my sexual drives, as well as a certain range of my feelings. This is not something I do on a regular basis, nor something that affects my behaviour in any significant way. It's just a mental skill that is very useful. People who don't have will never understand it.
And I can see how that's a useful 'skill', but that's not being asexual.
Yes, actually, that's precisely what being asexual implies.
Asexuality can be arrived at in different ways. If we're to be precise in our use of language, however, this is the best way to describe this "skill".
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