Some relationship advice

[NuclearEnergy]

I think I may cut off pursuit at this point like some of you are advising. There isn't much of a chance with her. I think you have opened my eyes to that. She is great and I hope we stay friends, but I need to go my separate ways with this one.

[paulpablo]

As far as pure chances of success with a girl is concerned anything is possible.
I've experienced improbable success.

And if you enjoy flirting/chatting with her anyway then you just carry on doing it anyway.

low chances of success wouldn't even stop me chatting in my own type of flirtatious way with lesbians.
You can persue someone in an elusive way but I wouldn't go out of your way to do it at this stage, or put all your eggs in one basket.

The main problem is see is the distance. That's definitely a problem.

[NuclearEnergy]

Just another update, I saw on Facebook she is still sort of flirting with this dude and making plans to go to some vacation destination. So maybe she is not over him, or she just has some serious attachment issues. However, I have no choice other than to cut off all pursuits of her. It's not worth chasing a girl like that who clearly cannot move on from another guy when apparently their reason for breaking up was fighting and him not treating her right.

[NuclearEnergy]

Well, she apparently got back together with that guy. Apparently they "made up". *Eye roll*

[Joods]

Smart of you to know when to bow out and not waste your time on that which is not worth pursuing.

You'll find someone who deserves your kindness.