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Admitting You're a Sinner
January 8, 2018 at 2:57 am
What's up with this?
It's the first step in the ABCs of becoming a Christian (Admit, Believe, Confess) but I always saw it as a rather unhealthy way to reflect upon one's misdeeds. Personally, I think something like "I made a mistake" or "That was terrible of me to do" is a much more beneficial as it is directed toward the action itself. It doesn't make the assumption: I did a bad thing, therefore I'm a bad person.
What does it really even mean?
Admit that I'm capable of moral transgressions? Sure, I'll admit that. But that doesn't mean I am anything, does it?
Does it mean admit that I've commited moral transgressions in the past? I'll admit that too. And while you're at it, I'll probably fail in my moral responsibilities in the future too. I admit it.
Theists: Have I admitted in this post that I'm a sinner? Or is there more to it than that? If so, what's the difference?
Atheists: What do you make of all this "admit you're a sinner" stuff? What do you think motivates it? Is it a good, bad, or ugly way to reflect on moral transgressions?
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RE: Admitting You're a Sinner
January 8, 2018 at 4:57 am
(This post was last modified: January 8, 2018 at 4:59 am by Longhorn.)
Well if you believe you’re a bad person the shame and the guilt will make you more susceptible to the riders’ of the high horses suggestions on how to not be a piece of shit. It’s a psychological control tool essentially. Because if you’re so bad and flawed who are you to question what the church says?
At its core at least, that’s the dynamic.
No it is not healthy. For me at least it was a lot of fuel to the fire of my own issues with self esteem.
Personally I choose to put aside any emotional aspect of the situation and learn from my mistake after making it right with whomever I hurt.
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RE: Admitting You're a Sinner
January 8, 2018 at 5:05 am
(January 8, 2018 at 2:57 am)vulcanlogician Wrote: Atheists: What do you make of all this "admit you're a sinner" stuff? What do you think motivates it? Is it a good, bad, or ugly way to reflect on moral transgressions?
It's not just "admit you're a sinner" but also "if you want to be saved, there is a way, and that is in Jesus Christ only". It's this "Good News" that is what has attracted many to Christianity. It's the appeal of knowing that even though you can't seem to be able to control what you do, there is someone out there watching out for you and willing to hold you tight and not let you go ... if you just let him.
Obviously, I personally think it's an ugly way to look at it, but that's how Christian churches gain converts and keep them in hold as much as possible.
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RE: Admitting You're a Sinner
January 8, 2018 at 6:45 am
(This post was last modified: January 8, 2018 at 6:46 am by BrianSoddingBoru4.)
Sin lies only in harming another person unnecessarily (harming yourself isn't sinful, just stupid).
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‘But it does me no injury for my neighbour to say there are twenty gods or no gods. It neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg.’ - Thomas Jefferson
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RE: Admitting You're a Sinner
January 8, 2018 at 7:20 am
If it's a sin to kill people then I'm a sinner. But I'm a piker compared to the christian god. Dude killed the planet!
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RE: Admitting You're a Sinner
January 8, 2018 at 8:24 am
In order to sell a cure you must first invent a disease. That's why many religions are so heavy handed with convincing people about how bad they are, how much of a sinner they are, even if they've never sinned they inherit the sins of their ancestors and only that religion can provide the cure and salvation.
The idea of sin is solely a human invention and shouldn't be treated as anything other.
In my opinion it's good to reflect upon one's moral transgressions and try to avoid committing them again. However I do believe that religion is unhealthy here as the focus of religion isn't really in helping people get past their own shortcomings as the main focus is just to make them religious in the first place, no matter what.
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RE: Admitting You're a Sinner
January 8, 2018 at 9:19 am
(January 8, 2018 at 2:57 am)vulcanlogician Wrote: What's up with this?
It's the first step in the ABCs of becoming a Christian (Admit, Believe, Confess) but I always saw it as a rather unhealthy way to reflect upon one's misdeeds. Personally, I think something like "I made a mistake" or "That was terrible of me to do" is a much more beneficial as it is directed toward the action itself. It doesn't make the assumption: I did a bad thing, therefore I'm a bad person.
What does it really even mean?
Admit that I'm capable of moral transgressions? Sure, I'll admit that. But that doesn't mean I am anything, does it? (2)
Does it mean admit that I've commited moral transgressions in the past? I'll admit that too. And while you're at it, I'll probably fail in my moral responsibilities in the future too. I admit it.
Theists: Have I admitted in this post that I'm a sinner? (1)
1 - Yes.
2 - Yes. How would you define "good person" or "bad person" without reference to their deeds? I doubt such a definition would be useful.
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RE: Admitting You're a Sinner
January 8, 2018 at 9:25 am
(This post was last modified: January 8, 2018 at 9:26 am by Catholic_Lady.)
(January 8, 2018 at 2:57 am)vulcanlogician Wrote: What's up with this?
It's the first step in the ABCs of becoming a Christian (Admit, Believe, Confess) but I always saw it as a rather unhealthy way to reflect upon one's misdeeds. Personally, I think something like "I made a mistake" or "That was terrible of me to do" is a much more beneficial as it is directed toward the action itself. It doesn't make the assumption: I did a bad thing, therefore I'm a bad person.
What does it really even mean?
Admit that I'm capable of moral transgressions? Sure, I'll admit that. But that doesn't mean I am anything, does it?
Does it mean admit that I've commited moral transgressions in the past? I'll admit that too. And while you're at it, I'll probably fail in my moral responsibilities in the future too. I admit it.
Theists: Have I admitted in this post that I'm a sinner? Or is there more to it than that? If so, what's the difference?
I would say so. Basically it's just acknowledging that we all have our faults and none of us are morally perfect. Acknowledging this is the first step to feeling remorse for wrong doings, not feeling superior to others, and for striving to do the difficult right thing when we feel the natural urge to do the easy wrong thing. The concept itself is the same, regardless of whether you use the word sin or not.
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RE: Admitting You're a Sinner
January 8, 2018 at 9:27 am
I'm not all that familiar with the 'admitting you're a sinner' concept, but from what I gather, it doesn't seem very healthy.
No one's perfect, everyone makes mistakes, etc etc, so why admit that to the church or 'god' or whoever? Why give them that importance? I'd rather tell a human who I respect and trust. I don't get how admitting that makes people feel better, or improves them. If someone can explain, I'd be very interested to read it.
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RE: Admitting You're a Sinner
January 8, 2018 at 9:30 am
(January 8, 2018 at 9:27 am)DodosAreDead Wrote: I'm not all that familiar with the 'admitting you're a sinner' concept, but from what I gather, it doesn't seem very healthy.
No one's perfect, everyone makes mistakes, etc etc, so why admit that to the church or 'god' or whoever? Why give them that importance? I'd rather tell a human who I respect and trust. I don't get how admitting that makes people feel better, or improves them. If someone can explain, I'd be very interested to read it.
It comes from the concept that a naked teenager in a theme park sinned and you inherited it. This was built in to make sure everybody NEEDS god and the priests are the way to get there. Sneaky way to guarantee repeat business.
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