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| Poll: How much on average are you doing the deed This poll is closed. |
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| 6+ times a week | 2 | 10.53% | |
| 3-5 times a week | 2 | 10.53% | |
| 1-2 times a week | 7 | 36.84% | |
| 1-2 times a month | 2 | 10.53% | |
| several times a year or less | 6 | 31.58% | |
| Total | 19 vote(s) | 100% | |
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 (April 11, 2018 at 2:36 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:(April 11, 2018 at 2:20 pm)Lutrinae Wrote: A couple times a year is fine for me. I'm not a sex maniac. LOL, you guys sound exactly like us in the sex department.  (April 11, 2018 at 2:37 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Mooney Whats your rules? If one of us wants to play outside the relationship they have to be willing to let the other do so as well. The other party has to approve of the person. The person must be clean and you can't go off what they say. Protection is a must, no believing a woman is on birth control or trusting in it solo. No relationship with the person. Meaning no going to dinner, movie, etc. You aren't dating you are just screwing. If feelings start developing the person is now not allowed. (This has not happened, if anything our other play makes us go back to each other saying how much they are still the best we've had) Everyone has to be ok with everything at all times. The moment someone isn't things stop.
“What screws us up the most in life is the picture in our head of what it's supposed to be.”
Also if your signature makes my scrolling mess up "you're tacky and I hate you."  (April 11, 2018 at 2:46 pm)mlmooney89 Wrote:(April 11, 2018 at 2:37 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Mooney Whats your rules? Out of curiosity, how do y'all find people like this? I mean like, how do you bring up the subject to someone you might wanna have a sexual relationship with? Since peiple will default to assuming you're unavailable since you're married, I've always wondered how the conversation starts lol.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
Also I've never told my partner no to sex. Even if I don't feel like having sex I play along and soon enough he has turned me on so then we both want it. Figure if he can do the work to turn me on I can give the effort to try. Plus then if ever I'm turned on and he isn't he will do the same for me (like me smiling and saying I'm going to bed isn't enough to turn him on lol)
“What screws us up the most in life is the picture in our head of what it's supposed to be.”
Also if your signature makes my scrolling mess up "you're tacky and I hate you." 
I am a sad fuck that just loves my wife.
But, that said, sexuality is a personal thing. I only have 2 rules for people: Consent No minors. (April 11, 2018 at 2:49 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Out of curiosity, how do y'all find people like this? I mean like, how do you bring up the subject to someone you might wanna have a sexual relationship with? Since peiple will default to assuming you're unavailable since you're married, I've always wondered how the conversation starts lol. Started off with an app till I found a guy that has a group of friends that are casual sex friends. Went out to dinner as a group with them to get to know them, talked to them in group messages, a few we private messaged. One girl I thought he was going after solo but it turned into her wanting me so we had a threesome lol. The people in A69 know my frustration with threesomes :p
“What screws us up the most in life is the picture in our head of what it's supposed to be.”
Also if your signature makes my scrolling mess up "you're tacky and I hate you." (April 11, 2018 at 2:52 pm)mlmooney89 Wrote: Also I've never told my partner no to sex. Even if I don't feel like having sex I play along and soon enough he has turned me on so then we both want it. Figure if he can do the work to turn me on I can give the effort to try. Plus then if ever I'm turned on and he isn't he will do the same for me (like me smiling and saying I'm going to bed isn't enough to turn him on lol) Same here^
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh (April 11, 2018 at 2:46 pm)mlmooney89 Wrote: No relationship with the person. Meaning no going to dinner, movie, etc. You aren't dating you are just screwing. If feelings start developing the person is now not allowed. (This has not happened, if anything our other play makes us go back to each other saying how much they are still the best we've had) Why even bother?  RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
April 11, 2018 at 4:03 pm
(This post was last modified: April 11, 2018 at 4:04 pm by Mister Agenda.)
For a while I took a drug called Clonadine that negatively affected my sex drive. Not performance, just desire. Plus tinnitus and wildly vivid dreams. I complained of the side effects and the doc doubled my dose, because the dose I was on didn't get the job done. I had already been put in the hospital by a previous drug he tried on me, and what he was trying to achieve was not that important. So I found a new doctor. Unfortunately, the low sex drive and tinnitus never went away. The irony is that my partner is up for anywhen, but it kind of seems like a chore to me now. If I had been between girlfriends, it would have worked out perfect. Long story short, every few months.
On the bright side, it's nice to have my gray matter in charge for a change.
I'm not anti-Christian. I'm anti-stupid.
(April 11, 2018 at 3:50 pm)alpha male Wrote:(April 11, 2018 at 2:46 pm)mlmooney89 Wrote: No relationship with the person. Meaning no going to dinner, movie, etc. You aren't dating you are just screwing. If feelings start developing the person is now not allowed. (This has not happened, if anything our other play makes us go back to each other saying how much they are still the best we've had) New experiences, new adventures, there is a rush in going outside the relationship...
“What screws us up the most in life is the picture in our head of what it's supposed to be.”
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