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RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
April 11, 2018 at 11:05 pm
(April 11, 2018 at 7:17 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Wow, 3 times per day? We had sex 5 times in a 24 hour period right after we got married, but that's the only time its ever happened more than twice. And twice is still pretty rare.
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Sometimes, yeah. When I get in the mood, I'm in the mood. And if my husband isn't, I can usually call up one of my girlfriends. (Which can sometimes get him in the mood..) Sometimes we go two rounds in a row. And once in a while three.
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RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
April 11, 2018 at 11:09 pm
(April 11, 2018 at 10:49 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (April 11, 2018 at 8:08 pm)c172 Wrote: I completely missed out on that part of my human development. Growing up, sex with a disability just felt like a taboo. I have kissed three girls, but this was all when I was 15. 42 now.
Like Jormy, I feel like my fantasy life is quite rich. I do fantasize a lot, and do enjoy fetish websites and such. Especially those that aren't just picture banks, but message boards, where we can all discuss whatever part of sexuality excites us at that moment. Sometimes I feel like I go overboard with it. But maybe it's just me getting my release a different way.
As I get older, I want a relationship less and less. I don't want kids (I can physically have them. I just don't want them). And marriage seems harder to maintain than in previous generations. And I don't want sex outside the confines of a relationship. YMMV. Just a personal thing. I do support how in Canada (Vancouver, at least) there are therapeutic sex providers (I think that's what they are called), who literally help the disabled get off. Again, just not my thing. Great service, though. This part of all of our lives is important.
Hmm, interesting. What are your fetishes?
I'm gonna make a few guesses and you gotta tell me if I'm correct. I'm thinking it's either bondage or the one fetish where they wear animal costumes.
Haha! Close.
So, with my disability, I spent lots of time in surgery from birth until maybe 16. So I was exposed to many things medical. Medical fetish (or medfet for short) is indeed an umbrella of fetishes. Mine is rather specific, and doesn't even relate to my own disability. Some people have a nurse or even doctor fetish. Mine is for female patients in masks (and whatever they are normally wearing, which could be anything from a modest schoolgirl kit [not one of those slutty ones] to footed pajamas [not an animal costume, including those Japanese "kigurumi" onesies that have no feet, but a hood, often in an animal theme]).
*sees myself out*
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RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
April 11, 2018 at 11:26 pm
(April 11, 2018 at 11:09 pm)c172 Wrote: (April 11, 2018 at 10:49 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Hmm, interesting. What are your fetishes?
I'm gonna make a few guesses and you gotta tell me if I'm correct. I'm thinking it's either bondage or the one fetish where they wear animal costumes.
Haha! Close.
So, with my disability, I spent lots of time in surgery from birth until maybe 16. So I was exposed to many things medical. Medical fetish (or medfet for short) is indeed an umbrella of fetishes. Mine is rather specific, and doesn't even relate to my own disability. Some people have a nurse or even doctor fetish. Mine is for female patients in masks (and whatever they are normally wearing, which could be anything from a modest schoolgirl kit [not one of those slutty ones] to footed pajamas [not an animal costume, including those Japanese "kigurumi" onesies that have no feet, but a hood, often in an animal theme]).
*sees myself out*
Hey, shit, I'm not judging. Whatever your needs are, just take care of them. As long as nobody is hurt, piss on the people who don't like it (while realizing that some people like getting pissed on!).
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RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
April 11, 2018 at 11:28 pm
True, and in turn, who am I to judge that?
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RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
April 11, 2018 at 11:31 pm
What do you guys think about taboo porn, like ‘rape’ pornos?
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RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
April 11, 2018 at 11:35 pm
Hmmm. Vaginal or anal rape not so much, but I've watched some rater intense oral sex where the girl's gag reflex was severely tested.
I admit, I'd love to have sex according to all my fetishes and nothing else, but I'd like to think she'd be on board as well.
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RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
April 11, 2018 at 11:43 pm
(April 11, 2018 at 11:09 pm)c172 Wrote: (April 11, 2018 at 10:49 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Hmm, interesting. What are your fetishes?
I'm gonna make a few guesses and you gotta tell me if I'm correct. I'm thinking it's either bondage or the one fetish where they wear animal costumes.
Haha! Close.
So, with my disability, I spent lots of time in surgery from birth until maybe 16. So I was exposed to many things medical. Medical fetish (or medfet for short) is indeed an umbrella of fetishes. Mine is rather specific, and doesn't even relate to my own disability. Some people have a nurse or even doctor fetish. Mine is for female patients in masks (and whatever they are normally wearing, which could be anything from a modest schoolgirl kit [not one of those slutty ones] to footed pajamas [not an animal costume, including those Japanese "kigurumi" onesies that have no feet, but a hood, often in an animal theme]).
*sees myself out*
Wow I've never heard of medical fetish before. Can you post a picture here of a person wearing what you like so I know what you mean? No nudies.
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April 11, 2018 at 11:51 pm
Would be easy to do with attachments, but I don't think that exists here. I'm going to go dig, tough.
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RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
April 11, 2018 at 11:51 pm
I'm in the several times a year category.
I would have felt sorry for the person I've become twenty years ago but I don't feel that interested anymore.
I enjoy it when it happens but it has to land on my doorstep, I never pursue anyone.
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RE: Find out how much your fellow forum members are getting screwed
April 11, 2018 at 11:55 pm
(April 11, 2018 at 11:31 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote: What do you guys think about taboo porn, like ‘rape’ pornos?
Not aimed at me, but I'm just going to go ahead and say that's disturbing af. And I don't see in what kind of world It would be at all healthy to watch porn depicting such violence against women.
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