How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?

[Little lunch]

Jesus, is cisplaining a term, because I’m coining it. Do we really need to decide what labels Yon can use? We can disagree with him all day long without dissecting his sexual and gender self-identity. This is making me squeamish. I don’t want to upset anyone, but it’s coming off as bullying.

As far as I'm concerned, cis-male is a bullshit term, I'm heterosexual.
But then again, mansplaining was a bullshit term also.

[Shell B]

Yeah, I’m not into the cis label, either. Just speaking the lingo.

[bennyboy]

Even 20 years ago a neo-vagina could be constucted that was indistinguishable from a natural one visually expected from the outside by a cisgendered woman, or being penetrated by an experienced straight man.

Eh, I'm calling bullshit. I'm 100% certain if I was face-to-face with a vagina, I'd recognize if it was the real thing or not. There's so much going on there-- the textures, the smell (it changes from start to finish like a Willy Wonka's everlasting gobstopper), the milky lubrication if you're doing it right, the ways the muscles ripple during orgasm. You simply can't fake all of that.

With all due respect, if there's any man who can't tell the difference between a natural-born-vagina and a reconstructed one, then he's just not doing it right.