I Don't Care

[madog]

I had to think about this .... we are all indoctrinated with predjudice ... the best we can do is consider it when confronted with it ...

After considering it ... why should someone pre-empt a persons possible prejudice?

Should someone pre-warn that they have a different racial appearance than one or both of their parents in case the partner is a racist?

[LastPoet]

I don't believe yonadav is a trans person for a moment. Its something he made up just to stir shit.

[LadyForCamus]

It is kind of hard to believe that someone who seems to have such a cynical and bitter attitude toward women identifies as one, isn’t it?

[arewethereyet]

I find it difficult to believe Yon doesn't care. 

[Shell B]

I had to think about this  .... we are all indoctrinated with predjudice ... the best we can do is consider it when confronted with it ...

After considering it ... why should someone pre-empt a persons possible prejudice?

Should someone pre-warn that they have a different racial appearance than one or both of their parents in case the partner is a racist?

It's not prejudice on my part. At least, I'd like to think it's not. I'd like to consciously make a decision without someone else making it for me. I'm not sure how I'd opt to react, but the point is that I've never had sex with a transsexual, and I'd like to choose to do or not to do it based on how I feel. No one can tell me that's wrong or right. It's more complicated than prejudice.

[Shell B]

Or they could just tell me their status first so I can decide? I don’t know how I’d feel, but I do like making these decisions myself.

"I really wanna grab you by the pussy, but first, a question, got one?" -  it really is that easy.  If I got handsy and came up with penis..that's on me.

I think it's hilarious how large this issue is in the minds of the insecure, personally, obviously nothing to do with you.  The odds of accidentally groping peen are monumentally low. To hear the story told, there are just piles and piles of trannys suckering Totally Hetero™ guys into grabbing their dicks.  It's a scourge of modern society.   Surprise penis around every corner, lol.

If I'm invited to get handsy and come up with pussy, it's hardly my fault. I'm not exactly running around assaulting people. I wait for the invite. If you invite me to a party, tell me if it's a birthday or an anniversary, ya know? It's just how I feel about it. I'm not sure I'd really care, but I'd like to make that decision myself.

[The Grand Nudger]

They're your hands.  What you're thinking of is how you aren't some gropey piece of shit and you grab what you want, and you're okay with what you lay hands on...but this a Yon-scenario.  

Specifically designed to troll the living shit out of people.

[Losty]

They're your hands.  What you're thinking of is how you aren't some gropey piece of shit and you grab what you want, and you're okay with what you lay hands on...but this a Yon-scenario.  

Specifically designed to troll the living shit out of people.

This still confuses me. If you’re with a woman and that woman invites you to grope her and you do, that doesn’t follow that you wanted to grab her dick. It doesn’t follow that you’d be ok with it. You had a valid expectation of a pussy. At the very least you’d be entitled to say that you didn’t sign up for a dick and you’re not into it.

Just deciding that groping someone (who you reasonably thought had a vag) with a penis means that’s what you wanted and you’re okay with it or otherwise you’re a piece of shit...that makes no sense to me.

[The Grand Nudger]

You're with a person that you want to grope, and you grope them.  If you find something that you don't like - and the list of things is endless, then hey, cool, but that's on you.  Stop groping them, take stock of your life, lol.

It doesn't make the person you groped a "reverse rapist".

This is really simple, lol.

-but thats his entire schtick.  These poor white hetero males have it so bad, what with all the reverse x-ing this and thats.  Heaven forfend some person tells a Straight White Hetero Male™ to stop grabbing big black dick.

[Losty]

You're with a person that you want to grope, and you grope them.  If you find something that you don't like - and the list of things is endless, then hey, cool, but that's on you.  Stop groping them, take stock of your life, lol.

It doesn't make the person you groped a "reverse rapist".

This is really simple, lol.

No, it definitely doesn’t make them a rapist or “reverse rapist” (whatever that means). It doesn’t mean they’ve done anything wrong. But I think you’d be entitled to feel uncomfortable and let them know that you don’t feel comfortable and you’re going to leave now.

See...it would be simple if you were saying what you mean. But what you said didn’t even address the idea of reverse rapism or whatever it’s called. What you said implies that simply not being ok with having grabbed an unexpected type of genitals makes someone a piece of shit. If that’s not what you meant then, I’m sorry, but that’s really how it reads.