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A postscript to "what happened to me"
RE: A postscript to "what happened to me"
I'm an asshole, and yet I know there would be people on this forum who cared if I died. I personally wouldn't mind being insulted, but I wouldn't want their feelings to be hurt while they're grieving.
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RE: A postscript to "what happened to me"
(July 23, 2019 at 12:46 pm)Shell B Wrote: I'm an asshole, and yet I know there would be people on this forum who cared if I died. I personally wouldn't mind being insulted, but I wouldn't want their feelings to be hurt while they're grieving.

I don't think you're an arsehole. I just think you need Cods guidance.
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RE: A postscript to "what happened to me"
(July 23, 2019 at 12:46 pm)Shell B Wrote: I'm an asshole, and yet I know there would be people on this forum who cared if I died. I personally wouldn't mind being insulted, but I wouldn't want their feelings to be hurt while they're grieving.
I butt heads with you a lot but I don't think your an asshole and it would make me sad if you died
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.

Inuit Proverb

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RE: A postscript to "what happened to me"
(July 23, 2019 at 12:46 pm)Shell B Wrote: I'm an asshole, and yet I know there would be people on this forum who cared if I died. I personally wouldn't mind being insulted, but I wouldn't want their feelings to be hurt while they're grieving.

That's kind of what I am thinking as far as the unnamed person is concerned.  First of all, he would laugh about the accusation of insults thinking that Belaqua wouldn't know an insult if it bit him in the ass.  But the guy had friends and family and making stupid remarks a la Belaqua is disrespectful of those people.  

But PhilosophyMan will continue to justify his remarks and keep harping on being part of the 'out group'.  Which if that's a thing he is proving himself worthy of membership with every post.
  
“If you are the smartest person in the room, then you are in the wrong room.” — Confucius
                                      
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RE: A postscript to "what happened to me"
Awww, thanks for not thinking I’m an asshole, guys.
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RE: A postscript to "what happened to me"
(July 23, 2019 at 12:46 pm)Shell B Wrote: I personally wouldn't mind being insulted, but I wouldn't want their feelings to be hurt while they're grieving.

This to me is the basic point.

How often have we heard people around here say that we shouldn't hurt people's feelings? Being hurtful is not only allowed, it's applauded, if the recipient is on the not-approved list.
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RE: A postscript to "what happened to me"
Belaqua, you had a point to make. Prove it some other way on another day.
You fucked up by insulting a recently deceased person with mourners present.
You should apologise for that, even if you didn't foresee the outcome, although how could you not?

Also, I think Hitchens was a cunt for not keeping his mouth shut for a week or two after Falwal's death.

I'll just add that I don't think you're a cunt, Belaqua, you just fucked up without thinking I reckon.




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RE: A postscript to "what happened to me"
(July 24, 2019 at 6:26 am)Little lunch Wrote: You fucked up by insulting a recently deceased person with mourners present.

I said of your friend that he posted insults on the TTA. That's true. He did that. 

But lots of people posted insults on the TTA. Lots of people post insults here. It's not considered bad to post insults. 

I don't think it's insulting of me to say that he did something which he did, which lots of people do, which isn't considered bad.
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RE: A postscript to "what happened to me"
But people got insulted.
I didn't know the guy, but you used an example of him to highlight some negative activity, so it comes out negative.
That's not rocket science.




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RE: A postscript to "what happened to me"
(July 24, 2019 at 7:24 am)Little lunch Wrote: But people got insulted.

Well, OK. That's their reaction.

But they also say that it's fine to insult living people.
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