Your Ideal Relationship Arrangement

[The Valkyrie]

Kidnapper and hostage.

[Ravenshire]

Do people in longterm monogamous relationships not think they'd be happier and more fulfilled if they also had sex with beautiful people whenever they wanted (and it not affect their relationship)?

If my entire life revolved around having a place to put my dick, then maybe.

But, it doesn't.

[FrustratedFool]

Do people in longterm monogamous relationships not think they'd be happier and more fulfilled if they also had sex with beautiful people whenever they wanted (and it not affect their relationship)?

If my entire life revolved around having a place to put my dick, then maybe.

But, it doesn't.

Why does it have to be your entire life?  That seems nonsensical to me.

For example, my interest in sex is lower than most people's.  However, it just seems obviously true to me that if I had a stable monogamous relationship then my sexual fulfillment would be increased by also having the option of a BJ from beautiful strangers anytime I wanted.  Even for someone with as low a libido as me, I still want sex every now and again, and the option of variety, choice of time and place etc, seems clearly preferable to having less of those things.  More is more.

[The Valkyrie]

[FrustratedFool]

Lol. I fully approve of inorganic sex.
Shame I won't live to see sexbots become normalised.

[Ravenshire]

If my entire life revolved around having a place to put my dick, then maybe.

But, it doesn't.

Why does it have to be your entire life?  That seems nonsensical to me.

For example, my interest in sex is lower than most people's.  However, it just seems obviously true to me that if I had a stable monogamous relationship then my sexual fulfillment would be increased by also having the option of a BJ from beautiful strangers anytime I wanted.  Even for someone with as low a libido as me, I still want sex every now and again, and the option of variety, choice of time and place etc, seems clearly preferable to having less of those things.  More is more.

I can only reply to your ideas based on the face you present here, and frankly that face has appeared rather sex obsessed. Even the above post is reads like teenage boy fantasy fulfillment...

Back in high school, when my entire life did revolve around finding a place to put my dick, I sounded a lot like this.

[FrustratedFool]

How strange. But I wouldn't worry about chasing such phantoms of assumption and interpretation.

It seems to me that most people I've ever met would prefer it if they had slightly greater variety in sexual partners than their spouse, whilst also retaining their spousal relationships. To have their cake and eat it too, so to speak. I don't think I would count as sex obsessed anywhere near as much as the average person. I'm just very honest, I think, about my desires.

[Gawdzilla Sama]

It seems to me that most people I've ever met would prefer it if they had slightly greater variety in sexual partners than their spouse, whilst also retaining their spousal relationships.  To have their cake and eat it too, so to speak.  I don't think I would count as sex obsessed anywhere near as much as the average person.  I'm just very honest, I think, about my desires.

When I'm in a regular relationship I have always had a partner that likes "adventures" that have always included a long time friend of my lady. Female friend. After an icebreaking night of fucking like bunnies I had a chat with my wife and advised her that same-sex romps didn't threaten or disturb me. All three were happy with that. They also left unsaid any quid pro quo. I think they read me as solidly hetero, which would be true.

I married the first wife while on active duty with the USN. She mentioned at one point that it was easier to have a "safe" alternative for when I was deployed to WestPac. I smiled and she giggled. Then she called her friend and said that I was home and she should get "your fluffy butt over here!" Welcome home indeed.

[Bucky Ball]

Do people in longterm monogamous relationships not think they'd be happier and more fulfilled if they also had sex with beautiful people whenever they wanted (and it not affect their relationship)?

If you actually think you "look 'em in the eye" and actually think/understand that a random intimate sexual encounter is actually good or best for them or for you, in the long run,
I feel sorry for you. You do get, I hope, it's what you make of it.

[FrustratedFool]

Do people in longterm monogamous relationships not think they'd be happier and more fulfilled if they also had sex with beautiful people whenever they wanted (and it not affect their relationship)?

If you actually think you "look 'em in the eye" and actually think/understand that a random intimate sexual encounter is actually good for them or for you, in the long run,
I feel sorry for you. You do get, I hope, it's what you make of it.

What is the harm of a random intimate moment with a stranger (or non-stranger)?