(October 5, 2015 at 10:32 pm)Homeless Nutter Wrote: There's a specialist term for men who say, that while there's nothing wrong with porn, they themselves don't find it stimulating - "liars".
Don't get me wrong - I used to say the same thing, back when I gave a sh*t about what people think of me and when I thought I was fooling anyone.

Men are incredibly easy to excite - a rudely shaped vegetable is often enough, let alone audio-visuals of people having sex.
Sure - we've been taught that such reactions to indirect sexual stimuli is shallow, immature and unbecoming of a gentleman, but just because we can supress those instincts - that doesn't mean we don't have them.

Sure - many people abstain from erotic entertainment, at least to a certain degree (since we apparently have to have a f***-scene in pretty much every movie directed at adults), but that's just adherence to cultural norms, which have been forced on us since childhood.

I think there are some people who genuinely do have low sex drives or are just flat not interested in sex, but I do give the side-eye to anyone who is so vehemently prudish about it. That to me is a person who is just as excitable as everyone else but doesn't want to take ownership of it.

As soon as I saw this thread, I knew that by the time it was a few pages in, someone would mention Area69, lol.

I want to say that not all porn is created equal.  Most of it is targeted at males, yes.

But I'd rather watch some very brief, homemade, single-angle, poorly-lit, grainy video
of some nondescript middle aged couple
who are genuinely enjoying themselves

...as long as they both consent to it being filmed...

than some hi-def, multi-angle professional production
with fake boobs, fake tans, fake nails, fake hair, fake lashes, and fake orgasms.

Authenticity is the key.

I also want to say that the same applies to one-night stands
...they don't have to be cold and dispassionate just because they are primarily physical.

I will have a one-night stand, but only with an ex.  Maybe you'd call it more of a booty call.

I won't have a one-night stand with someone I don't know at all.  I am not that trusting.

As far as "where the line is" with regards to what can or cannot be said in a thread outside of 69,
I'm not really sure.

I thought the line was between discussing sexual topics,
as opposed to having actual cybersex, but maybe I'm an idiot.

Someone let me know if I cross a line.

I figure if the word felching can pass, I'm ok.

(October 5, 2015 at 10:36 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote:

(October 5, 2015 at 9:22 pm)Exian Wrote: Can't fake those giant porn hogs though!

I'm not a fan of big wangs anyway. They're overrated. Give me an average sized guy who really knows how to use it.

Really!? I'm straight and I like seeing giant hangers. Probably more of a circus fascination... or envy.

(October 5, 2015 at 10:36 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote:

(October 5, 2015 at 9:22 pm)Exian Wrote: Can't fake those giant porn hogs though!

I'm not a fan of big wangs anyway. They're overrated. Give me an average sized guy who really knows how to use it.

Damn it.

Wait you're a dood.

I gotta stop associating avatars with people. Gon' get me into trouble.

Yes... thought this was common knowledge Clearly not...

Awkward

*looks for new avatar*

I'm with you, MTL. I really don't go for the obviously fake. Not that it's bad if its your thing, but my take on it is- if you look exactly the same naked as you do dressed, then you're really not offering up any vulnerability, and it's exactly that trusting exposure that I find incredibly sexy and intimate. Nothing turns me on more than trusting me with your flaws.

(October 5, 2015 at 10:45 pm)Iroscato Wrote:

(October 5, 2015 at 10:36 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote: I'm not a fan of big wangs anyway. They're overrated. Give me an average sized guy who really knows how to use it.

Damn it.

Wait you're a dood.

I gotta stop associating avatars with people. Gon' get me into trouble.

Wait, you're not a giant cosmic bird flip?

Felching, this is a thing?

Ugh. Now that I can't with.

Whatever cracks the fat.
(Thanks Ignoramus!)

(October 5, 2015 at 10:55 pm)Thena323 Wrote: Whatever cracks the fat.
(Thanks Ignoramus!)

Haha Sounds totally different, yet no less sexual when put that way.

P.S. I'm totally on board with this campaign of yours.