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RE: Porn and Christians
October 5, 2015 at 10:37 pm
(October 5, 2015 at 10:32 pm)Homeless Nutter Wrote: There's a specialist term for men who say, that while there's nothing wrong with porn, they themselves don't find it stimulating - "liars". 
Don't get me wrong - I used to say the same thing, back when I gave a sh*t about what people think of me and when I thought I was fooling anyone.
Men are incredibly easy to excite - a rudely shaped vegetable is often enough, let alone audio-visuals of people having sex.
Sure - we've been taught that such reactions to indirect sexual stimuli is shallow, immature and unbecoming of a gentleman, but just because we can supress those instincts - that doesn't mean we don't have them.
Sure - many people abstain from erotic entertainment, at least to a certain degree (since we apparently have to have a f***-scene in pretty much every movie directed at adults), but that's just adherence to cultural norms, which have been forced on us since childhood. I think there are some people who genuinely do have low sex drives or are just flat not interested in sex, but I do give the side-eye to anyone who is so vehemently prudish about it. That to me is a person who is just as excitable as everyone else but doesn't want to take ownership of it.
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RE: Porn and Christians
October 5, 2015 at 10:42 pm
As soon as I saw this thread, I knew that by the time it was a few pages in, someone would mention Area69, lol.
I want to say that not all porn is created equal. Most of it is targeted at males, yes.
But I'd rather watch some very brief, homemade, single-angle, poorly-lit, grainy video
of some nondescript middle aged couple
who are genuinely enjoying themselves
...as long as they both consent to it being filmed...
than some hi-def, multi-angle professional production
with fake boobs, fake tans, fake nails, fake hair, fake lashes, and fake orgasms.
Authenticity is the key.
I also want to say that the same applies to one-night stands
...they don't have to be cold and dispassionate just because they are primarily physical.
I will have a one-night stand, but only with an ex. Maybe you'd call it more of a booty call.
I won't have a one-night stand with someone I don't know at all. I am not that trusting.
As far as "where the line is" with regards to what can or cannot be said in a thread outside of 69,
I'm not really sure.
I thought the line was between discussing sexual topics,
as opposed to having actual cybersex, but maybe I'm an idiot.
Someone let me know if I cross a line.
I figure if the word felching can pass, I'm ok.
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RE: Porn and Christians
October 5, 2015 at 10:43 pm
(October 5, 2015 at 10:36 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote: (October 5, 2015 at 9:22 pm)Exian Wrote: Can't fake those giant porn hogs though!
I'm not a fan of big wangs anyway. They're overrated. Give me an average sized guy who really knows how to use it.
Really!? I'm straight and I like seeing giant hangers. Probably more of a circus fascination... or envy.
I can't remember where this verse is from, I think it got removed from canon:
"I don't hang around with mostly men because I'm gay. It's because men are better than women. Better trained, better equipped...better. Just better! I'm not gay."
For context, this is the previous verse:
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RE: Porn and Christians
October 5, 2015 at 10:45 pm
(October 5, 2015 at 10:36 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote: (October 5, 2015 at 9:22 pm)Exian Wrote: Can't fake those giant porn hogs though!
I'm not a fan of big wangs anyway. They're overrated. Give me an average sized guy who really knows how to use it.
Damn it.
Wait you're a dood.
I gotta stop associating avatars with people. Gon' get me into trouble.
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RE: Porn and Christians
October 5, 2015 at 10:48 pm
Yes... thought this was common knowledge Clearly not...
Awkward
*looks for new avatar*
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RE: Porn and Christians
October 5, 2015 at 10:49 pm
I'm with you, MTL. I really don't go for the obviously fake. Not that it's bad if its your thing, but my take on it is- if you look exactly the same naked as you do dressed, then you're really not offering up any vulnerability, and it's exactly that trusting exposure that I find incredibly sexy and intimate. Nothing turns me on more than trusting me with your flaws.
I can't remember where this verse is from, I think it got removed from canon:
"I don't hang around with mostly men because I'm gay. It's because men are better than women. Better trained, better equipped...better. Just better! I'm not gay."
For context, this is the previous verse:
"Hi Jesus" -robvalue
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RE: Porn and Christians
October 5, 2015 at 10:51 pm
(October 5, 2015 at 10:45 pm)Iroscato Wrote: (October 5, 2015 at 10:36 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote: I'm not a fan of big wangs anyway. They're overrated. Give me an average sized guy who really knows how to use it.
Damn it.
Wait you're a dood.
I gotta stop associating avatars with people. Gon' get me into trouble.
Wait, you're not a giant cosmic bird flip?
I can't remember where this verse is from, I think it got removed from canon:
"I don't hang around with mostly men because I'm gay. It's because men are better than women. Better trained, better equipped...better. Just better! I'm not gay."
For context, this is the previous verse:
"Hi Jesus" -robvalue
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RE: Porn and Christians
October 5, 2015 at 10:51 pm
Felching, this is a thing?
Ugh. Now that I can't with.
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"Ironically like the nativist far-Right, which despises multiculturalism, but benefits from its ideas of difference to scapegoat the other and to promote its own white identity politics; these postmodernists, leftists, feminists and liberals also use multiculturalism, to side with the oppressor, by demanding respect and tolerance for oppression characterised as 'difference', no matter how intolerable." - Maryam Namazie
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RE: Porn and Christians
October 5, 2015 at 10:55 pm
Whatever cracks the fat.
(Thanks Ignoramus!)
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RE: Porn and Christians
October 5, 2015 at 10:57 pm
(October 5, 2015 at 10:55 pm)Thena323 Wrote: Whatever cracks the fat.
(Thanks Ignoramus!)
Haha Sounds totally different, yet no less sexual when put that way.
P.S. I'm totally on board with this campaign of yours.
I can't remember where this verse is from, I think it got removed from canon:
"I don't hang around with mostly men because I'm gay. It's because men are better than women. Better trained, better equipped...better. Just better! I'm not gay."
For context, this is the previous verse:
"Hi Jesus" -robvalue
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