(February 2, 2011 at 1:34 pm)downbeatplumb Wrote: I thought sarah pailn would have a better body than that.

Shes got legs like a chubby toddler.

Seriously, you just looked at sarah palin with lust? Damn Dbp, you're a trooper!

Leave us chubby people alone.

I certainly think you are too young for this man, and that he is too old for you, Josh. And I'm about the same age as you. I know from experience what dating an older person can be like. I dated a woman who was 8 years my senior, and I tell you this out of the utmost compassion; there is something wrong with your boyfriend.

He may be sweet and loving with you, but socially and mentally he is unstable for wanting to date someone so much younger than he is. It signals of some underlying problem within him that, while not necessarily of a pedophillic nature, is a disturbance of some kind. I know because I've been there.

It will be hard, but you are not ready for that kind of intimate connection with someone that much older...I would suggest breaking it off as soon as is possible. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but it will spare you a lot of unneeded heart-ache in the future, believe me.

(February 2, 2011 at 5:03 pm)Watson Wrote: I certainly think you are too young for this man, and that he is too old for you, Josh. And I'm about the same age as you. I know from experience what dating an older person can be like. I dated a woman who was 8 years my senior, and I tell you this out of the utmost compassion; there is something wrong with your boyfriend.

He may be sweet and loving with you, but socially and mentally he is unstable for wanting to date someone so much younger than he is. It signals of some underlying problem within him that, while not necessarily of a pedophillic nature, is a disturbance of some kind. I know because I've been there.

It will be hard, but you are not ready for that kind of intimate connection with someone that much older...I would suggest breaking it off as soon as is possible. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but it will spare you a lot of unneeded heart-ache in the future, believe me.

how old are you

I am seventeen. I know how it feels to be in love with someone older than you are, and it's a rush, for sure. Ride it out if you wish...but I think you will find that in time, you desire more than what this man has to offer you.

(February 2, 2011 at 5:11 pm)Watson Wrote: I am seventeen. I know how it feels to be in love with someone older than you are, and it's a rush, for sure. Ride it out if you wish...but I think you will find that in time, you desire more than what this man has to offer you.

aand are a boy

(February 2, 2011 at 1:34 pm)downbeatplumb Wrote: I thought sarah pailn would have a better body than that.

Shes got legs like a chubby toddler.

Sorry to break it to you,but that photo is a famous/notorious fake.

(February 2, 2011 at 5:03 pm)Watson Wrote: ... there is something wrong with your boyfriend.

He may be sweet and loving with you, but socially and mentally he is unstable for wanting to date someone so much younger than he is. It signals of some underlying problem within him that, while not necessarily of a pedophillic nature, is a disturbance of some kind.

Wait, What? Because someone older enjoys the company of young ADULTS there is something wong with them?! There is an 'underlying problem' and a 'disturbance' of some sort?

What the hell man? If I sat here and said there is something 'wrong' with him and he has an underlying problem because he wants to fuck dudes this board would be all over me up in arms.

There is nothing wrong with a 48 year old man wanting to have relations with a 17-18 year old (depending on where you live). They are consenting ADULTS.


The homosexuality is the underlying disturbance of an abnormal behavior, not the age differance.

He's sixteen, Dotard.

Dotard, I have experienced something almost exactly the same as what Josh is going through, so I kindly suggest you shut the fuck up about thing you know nothing about. Yes, there is something wrong with this man for wanting to have a relationship with someone so much younger than himself. It isn't just the company of this young man he is after, it is a full blown relationship and all that that entails. That in itself suggests to me that this man has social and emotional problems he needs to work out before pursuing any kind of relationship, let alone one with someone about twenty years his junior.

Let's not turn Josh's situation into a full blown argument, that would be careless and stupid now...let's keep the situation within its scope, shall we?