(April 19, 2016 at 5:57 pm)Losty Wrote:

(April 19, 2016 at 5:53 pm)Drich Wrote: That's real funny why my wife hits me too. Last time I told her some spagetti was not fit to give the dogs and she took the scalding pot off the stove and threw at me. (whole wheat pasta) just missed me with the pot but covered me in 212+*F Pasta and sauce.
A real FSM

I almost wish that were true. Ps. You're an asshole.

It's absolutely true. we don't have spaghetti anymore.

(April 19, 2016 at 5:59 pm)Losty Wrote:

(April 19, 2016 at 5:54 pm)Drich Wrote: Train up a child in the way he should Go and when he grows he will not depart from it.

It's all for naught Drich. This parenting style does not work. Ask my parents.

It does, you just have to stick with the training.
It worked for me because my dad stuck with it, it didn't for sister #2 because she could do no wrong, and it did for sister #3 because someone took the time to stick with her training as well.

(April 19, 2016 at 6:01 pm)Ben Davis Wrote:

(April 19, 2016 at 5:54 pm)Drich Wrote: Train up a child in the way he should Go and when he grows he will not depart from it.

A further demonstration of your utter lack of competence and sophistication in this regard. Children are not animals to be trained, they are people to be educated. Of course, if you had any basic human empathy, you would know this.

It's clear that no-one should pay any attention to a single opinion you have regarding child-rearing.

Both actually children need to be trained and educated.

(April 20, 2016 at 8:48 am)Drich Wrote:

(April 19, 2016 at 5:59 pm)Losty Wrote: It's all for naught Drich. This parenting style does not work. Ask my parents.

It does, you just have to stick with the training.
It worked for me because my dad stuck with it, it didn't for sister #2 because she could do no wrong, and it did for sister #3 because someone took the time to stick with her training as well.

Yea, my parents stuck to it. And it worked for me. Up until I was about 23 and realized that their ideas about morals and right vs wrong didn't match mine. There's no amount of training (read as abuse) that can prevent someone from ever having their own thoughts and developing their own conclusions.

(April 20, 2016 at 7:07 am)robvalue Wrote: I just can't be mad at him. I know I should be, part of me wants to be. But I genuinely think he has no empathy, and not through his own actions. So what I can realistically expect from him just isn't the same as I could expect from an average person. That doesn't mean I endorse or excuse anything he does or says. Just that I hold him less accountable than I would someone who does have empathy. I still fully discourage anyone else from following his example, in any capacity. But part of my own subjective morality, when applied to others, is to do with accountability and capability.

It hardly matters we're getting off topic since this was, if anything, a cry for help post if not just an attempt to annoy people. Maybe this discussion will help him learn something about himself, and give him a new perspective.

^^^This

(April 20, 2016 at 8:51 am)Ben Davis Wrote:

(April 20, 2016 at 7:07 am)robvalue Wrote: I just can't be mad at him. I know I should be, part of me wants to be. But I genuinely think he has no empathy, and not through his own actions. So what I can realistically expect from him just isn't the same as I could expect from an average person. That doesn't mean I endorse or excuse anything he does or says. Just that I hold him less accountable than I would someone who does have empathy. I still fully discourage anyone else from following his example, in any capacity. But part of my own subjective morality, when applied to others, is to do with accountability and capability.

It hardly matters we're getting off topic since this was, if anything, a cry for help post if not just an attempt to annoy people. Maybe this discussion will help him learn something about himself, and give him a new perspective.

^^^This

The reason I cannot agree with this is because he himself says that he does have empathy but that he refuses to acknowledge said empathy on his own choice because he believes it will appease his God.

Also, because the more he talks the more I think he's just a troll.

(April 19, 2016 at 6:08 pm)Stimbo Wrote:

(April 19, 2016 at 5:12 pm)abaris Wrote: Just the same as deciding not to be gay. Face it, man, you try passing for human, since you don't know the first thing about human emotions and empathy.

I've said it before, I'm saying it now, I'm going to keep on saying it until that happy day when saying it becomes obsolete:

Drich and anyone who thinks as he does have spent so much time and effort into being good, well-behaved drones for their cult, they no longer remember how to be human.

It simply depends on what and how you define 'human.'

To you your definition describes a low primate with uncheck emotions and feelings who can be lead around by anyone smart enough to manipulate said emotions or feeling by simply using the right key words or phase. My definition of 'human' does not include mindless monkey drones who are controlled by key words and can't think for themselves. That is the evolutionary default of man when he has not been trained to be anything better than what he wants to be.

(April 20, 2016 at 8:49 am)Drich Wrote:

(April 19, 2016 at 6:01 pm)Ben Davis Wrote: A further demonstration of your utter lack of competence and sophistication in this regard. Children are not animals to be trained, they are people to be educated. Of course, if you had any basic human empathy, you would know this.

It's clear that no-one should pay any attention to a single opinion you have regarding child-rearing.

Both actually children need to be trained and educated.

No dipshit, you guide a child, they are not dogs or seals in a circus. The only part you got right was "educate" but that means teaching how to think, not what to think. Kids are not clay, they are still autonomous individuals, not property, not pets.

(April 19, 2016 at 6:17 pm)Thena323 Wrote:

(April 19, 2016 at 5:54 pm)Drich Wrote: Train up a child in the way he should Go and when he grows he will not depart from it.

Nah...That shit happens all the time.
A line of Scripture isn't a talisman, Drich.

Clearly you do not understand the meaning of the word 'train.'

To train is to discipline along the lines of a Tibetan monk, not a free range chicken.