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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
June 3, 2016 at 8:38 pm
(June 3, 2016 at 7:57 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote: I went the other way. I went from "I'll never do a ONS" when I was a virgin, to probably most sex I get being casual (but still safe) now. I've never officially dated anyone for longer than 4 months.
You're 21. That's how its supposed to be.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
June 3, 2016 at 8:55 pm
(June 3, 2016 at 7:41 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: It has never worked out well for me.
Someone always catches feelings. Or started with them.
Human being romanticize sex in a way I will never comprehend. I try but I just can't. "I won't touch my genitals to anyone else's genitals unless I really lurve them"...Wut. Why?
I also don't get the jealousy. Jealousy confuses me so much. People are weird.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
June 3, 2016 at 8:56 pm
On edge. Cleaning lady barged in with her own key. Forgot her phone from earlier in the day.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
June 3, 2016 at 8:57 pm
(June 3, 2016 at 7:52 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: (June 3, 2016 at 7:44 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote: This guy tried to get me into it with him but I knew better so I refused. I knew he liked me, a lot, but I just wasn't interested in him beyond friendship and casual fucking.
I can't even do casual fucking any more. After my gf and I broke up recently, I tried to do a ONS, and I just felt like a perv. I guess I'm all growed up or something.
Maybe I'm just too immature to see how wanting a serious relationship is more mature.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
June 3, 2016 at 8:59 pm
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(June 3, 2016 at 8:21 pm)AkiraTheFighter24 Wrote: I need time to sort myself out. Unfortunately reality is not waiting. I don't think I'll ever make it. It makes me really depressed. I hate myself right now.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
June 3, 2016 at 9:08 pm
(June 3, 2016 at 8:57 pm)Losty Wrote: (June 3, 2016 at 7:52 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: I can't even do casual fucking any more. After my gf and I broke up recently, I tried to do a ONS, and I just felt like a perv. I guess I'm all growed up or something.
Maybe I'm just too immature to see how wanting a serious relationship is more mature.
You're right. I still feel like a 'grew' out of it. Maybe it's not maturity, per se, but I do feel like something changed. I don't feel good about casual sex any more, and I think it has a lot to do with my state of mind as a 25 year old and my state of mind now. Maybe that's maturity, probably not. Because it changed with the elapsing of time, I feel like I "grew" out of it.
Either way, I wasn't thinking the alternative is a serious relationship.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
June 3, 2016 at 9:13 pm
(June 3, 2016 at 9:08 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: (June 3, 2016 at 8:57 pm)Losty Wrote: Maybe I'm just too immature to see how wanting a serious relationship is more mature.
You're right. I still feel like a 'grew' out of it. Maybe it's not maturity, per se, but I do feel like something changed. I don't feel good about casual sex any more, and I think it has a lot to do with my state of mind as a 25 year old and my state of mind now. Maybe that's maturity, probably not. Because it changed with the elapsing of time, I feel like I "grew" out of it.
Either way, I wasn't thinking the alternative is a serious relationship.
Sorry, I wasn't being sarcastic. I was being serious. I mean...I'm 26. Maybe one day I too will outgrow casual sex. Currently it sounds cray to me though. Casual sex is where it's at. I'm not completely against romance but it's not sexual to me and it's definitely not sexy IMO. I think I have some weird disconnect in that area because of my past. I don't even generally like the idea of mixing sex with romance. It makes me feel super icky.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
June 3, 2016 at 9:13 pm
(June 3, 2016 at 8:55 pm)Losty Wrote: Human being romanticize sex in a way I will never comprehend. I try but I just can't. "I won't touch my genitals to anyone else's genitals unless I really lurve them"...Wut. Why?
I also don't get the jealousy. Jealousy confuses me so much. People are weird.
Sex is a really intimate thing, Losty. I guess it can be disconnected emotionally. There's nothing wrong with that, but in my experience sex is a lot better with a connection. There's an emotional component to it that just can't be replicated.
Bumping uglies can be great, but it seriously doesn't hold a candle to what passion can bring to the experience.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
June 3, 2016 at 9:16 pm
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(June 3, 2016 at 9:13 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: (June 3, 2016 at 8:55 pm)Losty Wrote: Human being romanticize sex in a way I will never comprehend. I try but I just can't. "I won't touch my genitals to anyone else's genitals unless I really lurve them"...Wut. Why?
I also don't get the jealousy. Jealousy confuses me so much. People are weird.
Sex is a really intimate thing, Losty. I guess it can be disconnected emotionally. There's nothing wrong with that, but in my experience sex is a lot better with a connection. There's an emotional component to it that just can't be replicated.
Bumping uglies can be great, but it seriously doesn't hold a candle to what passion can bring to the experience.
I mean...I think we define casual sex differently also. I would never have sex with someone I didn't know or wasn't close to.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
June 3, 2016 at 9:19 pm
(June 3, 2016 at 8:56 pm)c172 Wrote: On edge. Cleaning lady barged in with her own key. Forgot her phone from earlier in the day.
I'd be on edge too wtf. Did you shoot her?
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