A pervert can just mean like a deviant or fetishist, yeah? Or even a "perv" as in, a voyeur.

Crossing boundaries would be more of a "molester" "rapist" or simply a "sexual abuser". Right?

(September 4, 2016 at 12:50 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: A pervert can just mean like a deviant or fetishist, yeah? Or even a "perv" as in, a voyeur.

Crossing boundaries would be more of a "molester" "rapist" or simply a "sexual abuser". Right?

Describing someone who crosses boundaries as a pervert is perfectly fine. May I interest you in using a dictionary?

I was referring to the false analogy part when I implied you didn't really know what it meant, apparently.

You're havin' a laugh mate. I am a dictionary.

(September 3, 2016 at 5:04 pm)Macoleco Wrote: Yes, so what? I know many of you will call me a faggot or whatever. Idgf

I am a 21 year old male who has never kissed a girl or anything.  I often live off platonic loves. Liking a girl who I dont even know for years, and not being able to tolerate her presence because I start trembling, sweating, stuttering, cant think clearly, and feel like my legs have a 1000 KG ball attached to them (heavy). I often feel inferior to women who are pretty (in a specific way), or to the girl I like. Recently I even feel anger because is something I can barely control. Even when I read manga, or watch TV, etc. If there is a pretty female character, I almost immediatly feel annoyed by her. 

Take into account, though, that I am not shy in general. I speak well in public, and I can speak to anyone including women. EXCEPT, the girl I like. She is the only one who breaks me. 

Has anyone ever felt the same? It is like a love-hate sensation. You like her, and the same time you hate her.

I could have responded to this but fuck that first sentence. What the hell

(September 4, 2016 at 12:53 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: You're havin' a laugh mate. I am a dictionary.

Not a very good one apparently. You seem to need to ask everyone else what words mean all the time.

(September 3, 2016 at 5:04 pm)Macoleco Wrote: Yes, so what? I know many of you will call me a faggot or whatever. Idgf

I am a 21 year old male who has never kissed a girl or anything.  I often live off platonic loves. Liking a girl who I dont even know for years, and not being able to tolerate her presence because I start trembling, sweating, stuttering, cant think clearly, and feel like my legs have a 1000 KG ball attached to them (heavy). I often feel inferior to women who are pretty (in a specific way), or to the girl I like. Recently I even feel anger because is something I can barely control. Even when I read manga, or watch TV, etc. If there is a pretty female character, I almost immediatly feel annoyed by her. 

Take into account, though, that I am not shy in general. I speak well in public, and I can speak to anyone including women. EXCEPT, the girl I like. She is the only one who breaks me. 

Has anyone ever felt the same? It is like a love-hate sensation. You like her, and the same time you hate her.

Sounds like you could use some therapy. I'm sure you could overcome this with a good therapist. I also don't wonder a little bit if you don't suffer from the extremely common male problem of wanting girls way out of your league.

Joined ten days ago. Intimating the most private details of his life on the web. I'm not sure if this is legit.

(September 4, 2016 at 3:15 pm)abaris Wrote: Joined ten days ago. Intimating the most private details of his life on the web. I'm not sure if this is legit.

It could be fake. I always reply like it's serious, just in case it is. It really does no good to just scream troll. Even if this is fake, I'm sure that there are people out there with a similar problem. My suggestion to anybody with this or another variation of a madonna-whore complex should do the same thing: go get therapy before you attempt a relationship. Rather then sharing with a bunch of forum members, you can get help from an actual therapist.

Might take this seriously, if not for the first line.

So I will respond with, "Oh dear. How sad. Never mind!"

My identity is secured. Why would I hide anything? Nobody knows who I am.

Also, I do not believe in "leagues" or any of that bullshit.

The girl I liked dated a man like 15 years older than her, fat and bald who treated her like she didnt exist. The only reason she was with him was for money, even though she could easily get a handsome young man. Dont bullshit with me the "leagues" and all that.