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Do people just naturally want conflict
#31
RE: Do people just naturally want conflict
(September 25, 2023 at 10:07 am)Ahriman Wrote:
(September 25, 2023 at 10:02 am)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: That is, if you're so shallow you're only doing it for your own pleasure.

No one would have sex if they, themselves, weren't getting something out of it. It's an inherently selfish act.

No, it can be and often is a mutually satisfying act in which each partner aims to please the other. It's no wonder you claim to have so many problems in this area. What person would want to be intimate with such a self-absorbed and shallow person?

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#32
RE: Do people just naturally want conflict
Good lord, a discussion with Ahri about sex.  Say it ain't so.   Faints
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#33
RE: Do people just naturally want conflict
(September 25, 2023 at 11:14 am)arewethereyet Wrote: Good lord, a discussion with Ahri about sex.  Say it ain't so.   Faints

What you mean by that?
"Imagination, life is your creation"
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#34
RE: Do people just naturally want conflict
(September 25, 2023 at 10:07 am)Ahriman Wrote:
(September 25, 2023 at 10:02 am)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: That is, if you're so shallow you're only doing it for your own pleasure.

No one would have sex if they, themselves, weren't getting something out of it. It's an inherently selfish act.

LOL, you can't picture sex where two people are enjoying themselves and the other person? Sad.
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#35
RE: Do people just naturally want conflict
(September 25, 2023 at 2:13 am)Ahriman Wrote: I think humans naturally gravitate toward increasing conflict and chaos, and might actually enjoy their lives more, the more chaotic things are in the world, e.g. The Russia/Ukraine War, (pointless) political divisions such as Biden vs. Trump, drama in the household (married couples, parents/kids, money issues, etc.).......it just seems like people actually want all this bullshit, maybe because their lives are intolerably boring without it?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argument_Clinic

I'm sorry I'm here for an argument?
Argument? Why this is Abuse!
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#36
RE: Do people just naturally want conflict
(September 25, 2023 at 8:55 am)Ahriman Wrote:
(September 25, 2023 at 8:50 am)Gawdzilla Sama Wrote: Creating a new life. (For you parents out there.  Naughty )

Sex is not meaningful at all. It's literally just two people using each other's bodies to get themselves off. All pleasure, no meaning.

You say "pleasure" like it's a bad thing.
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#37
RE: Do people just naturally want conflict
(September 25, 2023 at 9:04 pm)LinuxGal Wrote:
(September 25, 2023 at 8:55 am)Ahriman Wrote: Sex is not meaningful at all. It's literally just two people using each other's bodies to get themselves off. All pleasure, no meaning.

You say "pleasure" like it's a bad thing.

Everything he/she/shit says is a bad thing.
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#38
RE: Do people just naturally want conflict
(September 25, 2023 at 9:04 pm)LinuxGal Wrote:
(September 25, 2023 at 8:55 am)Ahriman Wrote: Sex is not meaningful at all. It's literally just two people using each other's bodies to get themselves off. All pleasure, no meaning.

You say "pleasure" like it's a bad thing.

I was raised Catholic. Pleasure was never accepted as "good" or "bad" in my family, more like "irrelevant"
"Imagination, life is your creation"
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#39
RE: Do people just naturally want conflict
(September 26, 2023 at 4:55 am)Ahriman Wrote:
(September 25, 2023 at 9:04 pm)LinuxGal Wrote: You say "pleasure" like it's a bad thing.

I was raised Catholic. Pleasure was never accepted as "good" or "bad" in my family, more like "irrelevant"

I was raised Catholic and my parents couldn’t keep their hands off each other.

Boru
‘I can’t be having with this.’ - Esmeralda Weatherwax
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#40
RE: Do people just naturally want conflict
Why pay any attention to your family or how you were raised?
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