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Damn my libido!
#31
RE: Damn my libido!
(August 6, 2013 at 3:46 pm)Captain Colostomy Wrote: I have a sis-in-law who is the W word. For twenty bucks and a blunt she will happily help you with the O word.

Wordsmith?
Octothorpe?
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#32
RE: Damn my libido!
(August 6, 2013 at 4:57 pm)teaearlgreyhot Wrote: Are we related?
Yes. We're both Homo Sapiens Sapiens.

Quote: I've never done those things either because I've been so socially isolated all my life.

I thought that was the reason but now I know that it's not. It's merely that no one is interested in me.

(August 6, 2013 at 4:58 pm)Captain Colostomy Wrote: if you are really putting yourself out there, maybe you're trying too hard? Women can no doubt sense desperation

Trying doesn't work. Not trying doesn't work.

If I do nothing I am ignored. If I do something I am rejected.

Quote:Adding alcohol to the mix should level the field, though. You bar hop at all?

1. Can't afford it.

2. Have no ID.

3. Bad for my illness.

4. Can't on my medication.

EDIT: No one gives me a chance. I feel like just saying "Fuck the world" and giving up.

Is there anything I can take to make me frigid?
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#33
RE: Damn my libido!
I don't know, man. Just saying "no one's interested in me" doesn't really get us any closer to being able to provide solutions. The best response to that is "make yourself interesting," but that does you no good.

Why do you think women aren't interested in you?
Even if the open windows of science at first make us shiver after the cozy indoor warmth of traditional humanizing myths, in the end the fresh air brings vigor, and the great spaces have a splendor of their own - Bertrand Russell
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#34
RE: Damn my libido!
A friend once proposed this personal ad: "Looking for one more chance to prove I'm totally incapable of intimacy with another human being. Also, 58 Chevy for sale."

He wasn't serious but something like that could work. Maybe: "Free to good home, my cherry. Have had it to myself for 20 plus years and just feel it is time to move on. Please take care of it!"
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#35
RE: Damn my libido!
Maybe you guys should get out and actually do something. Do you have a hobby which is performed with out people? A social situation outside of the internet that is not going to bars?
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#36
RE: Damn my libido!
Even if you are ugly, (I don't know if you are or not) there will be someone out there that is interested in you. You have to make an effort to go out and meet people. Make friends. Widen your social circle and the world will open up to you.
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#37
RE: Damn my libido!
(August 6, 2013 at 4:54 pm)HalcyonicTrust Wrote: You don't need to say "Seriously." when I'm almost 25 and I haven't either! I believe you!

I also haven't kissed anyone, held hands with anyone, been on a date with anyone, or flirted with anyone.

I also have never been invited round a friends house.

I'm really popular me.

I think you have to try harder. You will be rejected many times, but you only need to succeed a few times. Don't think in terms of "I should already have done this", think in terms of "I need to start doing it now if I ever hope to get this done in the next 10 years".
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#38
RE: Damn my libido!
Maybe I shouldn't be taking this whole 'shed the V-word' shtick personally Thinking

And gents... the moment you can afford yourself a trip to Denton, TX: you have yourself a shot at a nonhorrible first sexual experience.

You can even take Virgin Airlines!
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
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#39
RE: Damn my libido!
(August 6, 2013 at 4:54 pm)HalcyonicTrust Wrote: You don't need to say "Seriously." when I'm almost 25 and I haven't either! I believe you!

I also haven't kissed anyone, held hands with anyone, been on a date with anyone, or flirted with anyone.

I also have never been invited round a friends house.

I'm really popular me.

Deep breath, and then relax. V word is only what society makes it. Work on getting out there, meet people, have counselling if your shy and have a social phobia. From this post it seems you might have other things to work on first.

Just my two cents, but I was a late bloomer too, so maybe it's easy looking back.
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#40
RE: Damn my libido!
(August 6, 2013 at 5:02 pm)HalcyonicTrust Wrote: I thought that was the reason but now I know that it's not. It's merely that no one is interested in me.

The impression I get from your posts is that you lack confidence. And confidence is probably 99% of what will get a guy laid. There's no way around it other than changing your mindset. As Chuck said, get out there and give it a shot. You may strike out miserably, but you'll learn that failing isn't the end of the world and you'll begin to build confidence. At least in part, you'll build it because you'll realize that a lot of people lack confidence.
"Well, evolution is a theory. It is also a fact. And facts and theories are different things, not rungs in a hierarchy of increasing certainty. Facts are the world's data. Theories are structures of ideas that explain and interpret facts. Facts don't go away when scientists debate rival theories to explain them. Einstein's theory of gravitation replaced Newton's in this century, but apples didn't suspend themselves in midair, pending the outcome. And humans evolved from ape- like ancestors whether they did so by Darwin's proposed mechanism or by some other yet to be discovered."

-Stephen Jay Gould
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