(January 2, 2015 at 4:23 pm)Losty Wrote: If you walked into a room and I was kneeling in the bed in nothing but heels and nylons you would have the choice to cheat on your wife or walk away.

I, on the other hand, am single. You know what that means, right?

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(January 2, 2015 at 4:23 pm)whateverist Wrote:

(January 2, 2015 at 3:32 pm)Tonus Wrote: Ummm... how is any of that possible if you're an atheist?

I'm probably just being dense here but why would being an atheist matter here?

I was just taking a walk on the Poe side.

Lol Tonus you're silly

(January 2, 2015 at 4:23 pm)Losty Wrote: If you walked into a room and I was kneeling in the bed in nothing but heels and nylons you would have the choice to cheat on your wife or walk away. You are not an animal or a sex addict. Being a man doesn't mean you would be so overcome by desire that you'd forget you had a wife.

Have a what?

This is what happens when you cum on a forum as a shameless harlot. Can't have a serious discussion about sex. Ah well, c'est la vie I'm going to read porn (watching is boring, no imagination) and masturbate and do all kinds of terrible sinful things. Hopefully, this post doesn't cause all of you poor helpless men to go off sinning and such. Oh how hard it must be to be a man, enslaved to your own sexual depravity.

(January 2, 2015 at 4:23 pm)Losty Wrote: This is where the fucking bullshit is. Jesus fucking Christ on a Popsicle stick do you not see how you just compared a man wanting not to cheat on his wife to an alcoholic not wanting to drink!?

Alcoholism is a disease where people are addicted to drinking.

The idea that men are these sex crazed beasts barely able to contain the animal inside them is bullshit. If you walked into a room and I was kneeling in the bed in nothing but heels and nylons you would have the choice to cheat on your wife or walk away.

If I didn't walk into the room in the first place, I wouldn't even have to consider it. Not walking into the room is the safe play.

Quote:You are not an animal

How does that work?

Quote:or a sex addict. Being a man doesn't mean you would be so overcome by desire that you'd forget you had a wife.

What monastery are you living in?

Go to a hotel bar, look for men with wedding rings on, and hit on them. If you're not horribly disfigured, someone will take the bait.

A lot of them would regret it the next day and think, "If I had just stayed out of that bar last night..."

You don't seem to understand male sexuality.

I know know Alpha. A man should should avoid bars, women should wear burkas, etc. etc. because of male sexuality. Poor dears can't help themselves, they don't want to cheat on their wives, but it's not their fault. The ones who fall victim to the ladies in short skirts aren't assholes, it's just male sexuality. I will never understand.

(January 2, 2015 at 4:50 pm)Losty Wrote: I know know Alpha. A man should should avoid bars, women should wear burkas, etc. etc. because of male sexuality. Poor dears can't help themselves, they don't want to cheat on their wives, but it's not their fault. The ones who fall victim to the ladies in short skirts aren't assholes, it's just male sexuality. I will never understand.

Oh please, like a straw man will help your case. As I'm arguing that married men can and should do certain things to maintain fidelity, I'm obviously not excusing those who do cheat.

Face it, you took a really stupid position. It would be better to just drop it than to dig the hole deeper.

(January 2, 2015 at 8:23 am)Alex K Wrote: Don't hold back, Creed, tell him what you really think!

I dunno, man, I gotta keep it toned down. If I let it all out, I might hurt his feelings.

(January 2, 2015 at 5:11 pm)alpha male Wrote:

(January 2, 2015 at 4:50 pm)Losty Wrote: I know know Alpha. A man should should avoid bars, women should wear burkas, etc. etc. because of male sexuality. Poor dears can't help themselves, they don't want to cheat on their wives, but it's not their fault. The ones who fall victim to the ladies in short skirts aren't assholes, it's just male sexuality. I will never understand.

Oh please, like a straw man will help your case. As I'm arguing that married men can and should do certain things to maintain fidelity, I'm obviously not excusing those who do cheat.

Face it, you took a really stupid position. It would be better to just drop it than to dig the hole deeper.

Actually, I was arguing that temptation was a bullshit claim and you said I was wrong. A man who isn't going to cheat on his wife, isn't going to cheat on his wife regardless of what the temptations are. I didn't take a stupid position. I don't care if you agree with me. I do not believe that going to Vegas will make a married man more likely to cheat on his wife than he was when he wasn't in Vegas. I haven't seen any proof to suggest that being way from his wife and near sinners will change the probably of a man cheating.

OK, once again I find myself agreeing with Alpha Male---at least sort of. I don't think temptation is a male only issue.

Maintaining fidelity in a marriage is more than just deciding to be faithful. Not purposely exposing yourself (be you male or female) to temptation is a big part of maintaining fidelity. Does this mean not going to lunch with sexy men or women? No, provided you have good reasons beyond the shape of their ass for wanting to have lunch with them. But sharing a weekend on a lonely isle might not be the brightest idea even if the plan is to spend your time discussing the politics of ancient Rome. People are susceptible to temptation, so avoiding temptation is a good idea.