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[KUSA]

I can understand if someone wants to end their life. There is no misery after you are dead. I can't understand why someone would choose to make their life more miserable.

The only thing that makes sense is that they want attention. Screw that.

[Losty]

I'm seriously wondering if you Quill or anyone else actually watched the video posted. The lady has a mental issue and was getting supposed help from her psychiatrist, the psychiatrist is the one who poured the drain cleaner in her eyes, so you tell me who has the greater mental illness. The psychiatrist hasn't been charged with anything as far as I know, so what's up with this, isn't anyone looking out for the welfare of the mentally ill, where is the compassion we're suppose to have for others. Quill I haven't seen it from you, I have seen it from many others though and I thank each one of you. In my opinion the one who needs the greatest help is the one who was suppose to be helping her, not harming her, and that person should be punished for harming someone who is so vulnerable.

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I can't watch the video from my phone. Someone, her psychiatrist of all people, poured drain cleaner into her eyes!?

If anyone should be pissed off, it should be because of the disgusting abuse from this supposed mental health professional.

[Edwardo Piet]

I can understand if someone wants to end their life. There is no misery after you are dead. I can't understand why someone would choose to make their life more miserable.

The only thing that makes sense is that they want attention. Screw that.

Whether you can understand personally is irrelevant. Mental illness is real. Fact.

And talk about argument from personal incredulity http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Argument_from_incredulity

You can't fathom the reality of mental illness therefore it's just a desire for attention?

Well if I can't fathom how you can't fathom mental illness being real does that mean I get to assume you're a total dickwad with no hope to change your mind on that matter? No.

[Losty]

I can understand if someone wants to end their life. There is no misery after you are dead. I can't understand why someone would choose to make their life more miserable.

The only thing that makes sense is that they want attention. Screw that.

Are you trying to say you don't believe mental illness is a real thing?

[Edwardo Piet]

Religion, as much as I disagree with it, isn't a mental disability.

Merely because you can still function day-to-day and be religious. It may be mentally irrational to me and ultimately harmful, but it isn't mentally unhealthy enough to  hinder functioning in society day-to-day.

If everyone took every word of it literally then it fucking would be, but if that includes the old testament, the unhealthiness of it would be the least worry, it would be things like killing your children for talking back at you that would be of greatest worry.

As much as I detest cherry-picking, thank fuck for cherry-picking. It's an irrational cognitive bias that keeps a lot of religious people sane and harmless.

I think cherry-picking is different from open disagreement or rejection - Most believers I know who don't follow all the bible claim that they rejected certain verses for many reasons, so they're not really picking, just rejecting some as unworthy. I agree that the standard used to evaluate religion are biased, but there's not an easy way to tell and convince people that magical sky daddy doesn't exist.

I doubt they wouldn't have even skimmed past the vast majority of the Bible full of horrible shit though.

Unless they never read it at all and just listened to a priest or vicar preaching the less extreme stuff.....

But I doubt it's all non-extreme considering the resulting bigotry often.

Personally I think it's a combination of cherry-picking, denial, emotional reasoning, all sorts.

Besides the priest/vicar would have done some cherry picking, so ultimately it comes from a cherry-picker.

But yes it's a combination of factors.

[KUSA]

I can understand if someone wants to end their life. There is no misery after you are dead. I can't understand why someone would choose to make their life more miserable.

The only thing that makes sense is that they want attention. Screw that.

Are you trying to say you don't believe mental illness is a real thing?

Not at all. It is absolutely a real thing. However, in this case it is not only impossible for me to understand but also impossible to feel sorry for them. If you blind yourself on purpose...... Fuck I don't know what to say.

[Losty]

Are you trying to say you don't believe mental illness is a real thing?

Not at all. It is absolutely a real thing. However, in this case it is not only impossible for me to understand but also impossible to feel sorry for them. If you blind yourself on purpose...... Fuck I don't know what to say.

Well I find it very sad for you that you are unable to feel compassion for someone suffering from a serious illness simply because you do not understand it.

[Edwardo Piet]

Okay KUSA....

Step 1. Believe mental illness is real. So, in your words you do so, you pass that.

Other steps you need to follow:

Step 2. Recognize that due to this specific person's mental illness her illness caused her to blind herself.

Step 3. Infer that she is a victim of that physical tragedy due to her mental illness.

Step 4. Feel compassion both for her mental state that caused her to mutilate herself and lose her eyes, and that physical state of blindness caused by that mental state.

So you're 1/4 there.

[Lemonvariable72]

Should you face consequences for accidentally walking into a wall? No. So then why should this woman face all the same issues you do along with a overwhelming urge to maime herself and you wanted to shun for disrespect? You know your urge to eat? Imagine that being an urge to hurt yourself and you may understand this women.

What she did hurts people. Yeah she should have mental help BUT that you don't seem to realize that people like her trample over the lived experiences and struggles of people with disabilities. It does not matter what her mental state is, the problem is that she sees disability as a "lifestyle". She is not dim, notice how many "transabled" people pick out some kind of mostly physical disability. So far no has said, hey I should have been born with Down's syndrome.

I'm sorry your on clueless ground here.I'm not. I actually have a good idea of what you go through because I have a juvenile cataract that left me legally blind as a child. Now you understand that in many ways this woman is far more disabled then you are. We understand alot more about physical disabilities and how to help people live with them, then we do psychological. I am going to give a example here from my personal life. My ex fiance has cereberal palsy, you know often people disrespected her for it? Not once when I was with her. And she could not even manage something as simple as carrying a cup some days.

Now I have a learning disability that prevents me from producing legible hand writing and I got thrown out of paramedic school on that basis alone. That's the chasm. Between physical and mental disabilities in our culture. You have no more right to simply tell this woman not to maime herself without giving her the help she clearly needs then I to tell you to stop being blind without care.

[Aractus]

By the way, I probably should have said this in my first reply. If transsexualism isn't viewed as a 'disorder' but rather a 'mental condition', then perhaps it's wrong to view BIID as a disorder rather than a mental condition. The striking similarities (feeling as though one is trapped in the wrong body, and needing physical change to feel at peace with one's body) suggest to me the disease-model of psychiatry is often flawed.

Also, I should note the lady on Springer did not say she had BIID, and I don't want to presume to know what condition she might have, I just wanted to point out how rude it is to label someone as "wacky" or "dumb". She is also a transsexual which suggests to me that BIID and transsexualism may have quite a lot in common with each other and can coexist in the one patient, although as I mentioned I'm not suggesting to know what condition the Springer lady actually has. Just pointing out the similarities to the blind lady with BIID - they both say they felt as if they needed physical change in the bodies from when they were children - and they both went to extreme lengths to achieve it - and they are both much happier with their bodies following the change.