Porn and Christians

[Thumpalumpacus]

What business? I just had an opinion about how I view sex and I just posted it on this thread (in very nasty judgemental manner mwahaha). I didn't expect that many responses though.

Yeah, calling them "evil" for an act that you have no involvement with ... perhaps you shouldn't be such a busybody?

And No I've not had sex. I've had close encounters and rubby-snubby episodes with a little boy and my homo-buddy is all.

Well, I play flight simulators on my computer, but you don't want me flying your 767, no do you?

Perhaps you should garner some experience to inform your opinions.

[Losty]

Moar laughter please

[Thumpalumpacus]

Care to clarify the rubby-snubby episode with a little boy?

Explain that shit soon, or else it's getting reported.

Yes.

Also, hard to stifle my hypocrisy detector when we've got a guy who calls sex between consenting unmarried adults "evil", but talks about playing with a little boy.

[Athene]

Explain that shit soon, or else it's getting reported.

Yes.

Also, hard to stifle my hypocrisy detector when we've got a guy who calls sex between consenting unmarried adults "evil", but talks about playing with a little boy.

Trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. He might have been a kid when it happened or he's just fucking stupid and it's not what it sounds like. 
Patience is wearing thin, though.

[KevinM1]

Demon Penis of the Paralyzed would be a bitchin' rock band name.

[bambi_swag]

I've had close encounters and rubby-snubby episodes with a little boy and my homo-buddy is all.

Care to clarify the rubby-snubby episode with a little boy?

Yes. These were the days when I was deepak-chopra fan and into Hinduism and New Age bullshit. I was already a fully confessesed Bisexual and tried to hide that from my conservative Christian parents who would beat the crap out of me if they did know.

I was fifteen at the time and the little boy was nine. We were really good friends and we liked each other's looks a lot. It started with innocent and awkward holding-hands a little too often. Then it came to the point where we would both touch each other secretly in certain *places* in the body when people weren't looking especially when we went swimming. I think the whole thing was strange because I thought nine years olds haven't gone through puberty yet?

(WARNING: Religious talk below)

Well anyways, I was a nasty pedophile, and a bi and I couldn't bare the guilt of my perverse life. Then two years ago, I cried a lot, repented and gave my life to Jesus and asked Him to change me from the evil pervert that I was and God did just that. That's why I'm such a conservative dude and you see my as an extreme anti-sex kinda guy. I am the very opposite of what I was before and this is one of the many reasons why I believe Jesus is real and God exists because of his changing powers in my life.

[Losty]

Explain that shit soon, or else it's getting reported.

Yes.

Also, hard to stifle my hypocrisy detector when we've got a guy who calls sex between consenting unmarried adults "evil", but talks about playing with a little boy.

Come on this is not hypocrisy. Obvious Poe is obvious, and amusing

[KevinM1]

Demon Penis of the Paralyzed would be a bitchin' rock band name.

"Hello, Springfield! This is our newest single, 'Unbidden Flapping'!"

[Losty]

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Care to clarify the rubby-snubby episode with a little boy?

Yes. These were the days when I was deepak-chopra fan and into Hinduism and New Age bullshit. I was already a fully confessesed Bisexual and tried to hide that from my conservative Christian parents who would beat the crap out of me if they did know.

I was fifteen at the time and the little boy was nine. We were really good friends and we liked each other's looks a lot. It started with innocent and awkward holding-hands a little too often. Then it came to the point where we would both touch each other secretly in certain *places* in the body when people weren't looking especially when we went swimming. I think the whole thing was strange because I thought nine years olds haven't gone through puberty yet?

(WARNING: Religious talk below)

Well anyways, I was a nasty pedophile,  and a bi and I couldn't bare the guilt of my perverse life. Then two years ago, I cried a lot, repented and gave my life to Jesus and asked Him to change me from the evil pervert that I was and God did just that. That's why I'm such a conservative dude and you see my as an extreme anti-sex kinda guy. I am the very opposite of what I was before and this is one of the many reasons why I believe Jesus is real and God exists because of his changing powers in my life.

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Aaaaaand you ruined it. /fun

[lunafreespirit]

There's a specialist term for men who say, that while there's nothing wrong with porn, they themselves don't find it stimulating - "liars".
Don't get me wrong - I used to say the same thing, back when I gave a sh*t about what people think of me and when I thought I was fooling anyone.

Men are incredibly easy to excite - a rudely shaped vegetable is often enough, let alone audio-visuals of people having sex.
Sure - we've been taught that such reactions to indirect sexual stimuli is shallow, immature and unbecoming of a gentleman, but just because we can supress those instincts - that doesn't mean we don't have them.

Sure - many people abstain from erotic entertainment, at least to a certain degree (since we apparently have to have a f***-scene in pretty much every movie directed at adults), but that's just adherence to cultural norms, which have been forced on us since childhood.

That's exactly what I was thinking as I read people's statements that porn doesn't excite them. Not just men, but women as well. When I was a Christian I used to say the same thing, but whenever I would see porn or sexual images, even unintentionally, I could not control the instinctual (and almost reflex) reactions my body and mind had, which was to be turned on.

I now gladly enjoy those instinctual reactions instead of feeling ashamed and in denial about them.