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RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
November 30, 2015 at 3:46 am
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(November 30, 2015 at 3:45 am)Quantum Wrote: That is all? Sounds real easy, Thump...
Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose, brotha.
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RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
November 30, 2015 at 3:50 am
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Now you tell me...
The fool hath said in his heart, There is a God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
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RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
November 30, 2015 at 3:53 am
(November 30, 2015 at 3:46 am)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: (November 30, 2015 at 3:45 am)Quantum Wrote: That is all? Sounds real easy, Thump...
Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose, brotha.
Wiser words have never been sung.
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RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
November 30, 2015 at 4:10 am
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(November 30, 2015 at 3:53 am)Thena323 Wrote: (November 30, 2015 at 3:46 am)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose, brotha.
Wiser words have never been sung.
We were just talking about this last week in another context, no?
Fortune favors the bold.
(November 30, 2015 at 3:50 am)Quantum Wrote: Now you tell me...
Wadn't my secret to keep, kemosabe.
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RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
November 30, 2015 at 4:27 am
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(November 30, 2015 at 3:50 am)Quantum Wrote: Now you tell me...
Someone on the radio the other day said that they never have a plan in life. That way, they can never stray off it or fail!
(I'm expecting someone to say something clever like " that sounds like a plan!)
No God, No fear.
Know God, Know fear.
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RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
November 30, 2015 at 5:49 am
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(November 30, 2015 at 4:27 am)ignoramus Wrote: (November 30, 2015 at 3:50 am)Quantum Wrote: Now you tell me...
Someone on the radio the other day said that they never have a plan in life. That way, they can never stray off it or fail!
(I'm expecting someone to say something clever like " that sounds like a plan!)
That is pretty clever. I wish I had said it. I might have though... Let's just assume that I would have if you hadn't.
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RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
November 30, 2015 at 7:13 am
@OP, ever thought of joining a drama club?
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RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
November 30, 2015 at 7:22 am
The first question to answer is, would you date yourself?
No, I don't mean that in a weird way, but before you can expect others to accept and love you for who you are, put yourself in their shoes and think if you'd actually want to date yourself, and if not, what qualities you'd need to change to make that happen.
Making these changes is the easy part though...
The next part is getting over the dreaded hurdle known as the "friend-zone",..
To get over it, you need to be confident, and be able to pick up some social cues. It comes with experience and loads of practice
Quote:To know yet to think that one does not know is best; Not to know yet to think that one knows will lead to difficulty.
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RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
November 30, 2015 at 7:26 am
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(November 30, 2015 at 7:22 am)Aoi Magi Wrote: The next part is getting over the dreaded hurdle known as the "friend-zone",..
With my wife, the defriendzoning involved a bottle of red or two... just saying. It might have worked out without that as well, but would probably have taken much longer
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RE: My pathetic whining about how I want a relationship
November 30, 2015 at 7:37 am
(November 30, 2015 at 3:45 am)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: (November 30, 2015 at 1:38 am)DespondentFishdeathMasochismo Wrote: It's fucking difficult and I'm a stupid bitch with a horrible personality (((((((((
I hope you know though, I'm completely different in person. Very shy, I never talk. If I do talk I try to be friendly, unless I'm somewhere I don't want to be, like school. Tbh my bad side comes out mostly when I don't want to be somewhere.
Then let's start with the basics. Why don't you try being like you are in real life here on line -- the friendly part, not the not-talking part, I'm not trying to be a dick here. But no one can help you with any sort of personal issue unless they know the real person you are.
This is nothing like talking to people irl. stop comparing the two.
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