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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 11:26 am
(January 18, 2018 at 9:34 am)polymath257 Wrote: (January 17, 2018 at 4:22 pm)Shell B Wrote: You're already in a relationship. You bring people into your house who, presumably, understand this relationship. Way fucking different than a first date at someone else's house where you just get naked. Furthermore, I assume you also have sex with these other people you bring into your relationship. Nudity is accepted because you have an established sexual relationship.
Willfully obtuse, I tell you. Being unwilling to accept the subtleties of situations other than your own makes this conversation impossible.
Why would you assume that they have sex with these other people? Just because they get naked and watch TV?
Um, no. Because he previously said he brings these girls into his relationship with his wife. I don’t usually call people coming over to watch tv part of my marital relationship. That said, Tiz and I already went over our apparent glitch in communication. So, it’s understood between us that I could have misread it.
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 11:27 am
Here's an idea: Someone pulls back from having sex, you FUCKING STOP. It's not that hard. I mean for fuck's sake. "Oh she's playing hard to get!" is a stupid fucking excuse.
"Tradition" is just a word people use to make themselves feel better about being an asshole.
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January 18, 2018 at 11:29 am
No one said she was playing hard to get that I saw. We seem to agree she says she wanted out at some point, but didn’t try very hard.
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January 18, 2018 at 11:29 am
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Finally, someone with some sense.
Edit: I mean Divinity.
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January 18, 2018 at 11:30 am
Am I mistaken or weren’t you like super misogyny man back in the day, pool? I could be thinking of a different member, but I recall there being something.
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 11:34 am
I grew up
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January 18, 2018 at 11:36 am
Good for you, pool.
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January 18, 2018 at 11:49 am
(January 18, 2018 at 6:17 am)Joods Wrote: You must really be special, Thump. Again - not every man can "sense" what a woman wants. It is, after all, men who are always saying how complicated women are and that we are impossible to understand or figure out, meaning that we need to be direct and we need to state things clearly so that you all "get it".
Actually, I'm not special. I'm not sure if you've noticed, but the overwhelming majority of men don't fall afoul female "complexity", not because we're so special we understand their every in and out, but because we consider the feelings and desires of someone else besides ourselves.
It's really not that difficult, and certainly not enough to merit your praise, kind though it is.
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 12:21 pm
Quote:Um, no. Because he previously said he brings these girls into his relationship with his wife. I don’t usually call people coming over to watch tv part of my marital relationship. That said, Tiz and I already went over our apparent glitch in communication. So, it’s understood between us that I could have misread it.
I do both . I have girls over as part of our relationship though not always sexual . I date girls were nudity is sometimes a feature of said date but there is no sex unless it's asked for . And yes i have had non date acquaintances over were being in a state of nudity is no serious issue .(and again i'm dressed at first and ask if there comfortable with nudity ) And the same goes for my primary girlfriends they sometimes do the same with other men .
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RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 18, 2018 at 12:24 pm
(January 18, 2018 at 11:49 am)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: Actually, I'm not special. I'm not sure if you've noticed, but the overwhelming majority of men don't fall afoul female "complexity", not because we're so special we understand their every in and out, but because we consider the feelings and desires of someone else besides ourselves.
So, why do you think this woman keeps finding the rare jerks - just coincidence?
Quote:“I remember saying, ‘You guys are all the same, you guys are all the fucking same.’”
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