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Would you ever cheat in a relationship?
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 (May 27, 2013 at 12:10 pm)dazzn Wrote: I don't think i would, but i'd see little wrong in doing so per se (morals don't exist, do they?) What are you guilty of dazzn? "The Universe is run by the complex interweaving of three elements: energy, matter, and enlightened self-interest." G'Kar-B5
 (May 27, 2013 at 12:10 pm)dazzn Wrote: I don't think i would, but i'd see little wrong in doing so per se (morals don't exist, do they?) Consequences exist...so does divorce court, alimony and child support....(if they're married)...
"Inside every Liberal there's a Totalitarian screaming to get out"
![[Image: freddy_03.jpg]](https://images.weserv.nl/?url=s25.postimg.org%2Fuq1y7aapr%2Ffreddy_03.jpg) Quote: JohnDG... Quote:It was an awful mistake to characterize based upon religion. I should not judge any theist that way, I must remember what I said in order to change. 
I'll admit I cheated on a boyfriend when I was 17... I wanted to end the relationship, couldn't figure out how, and cheated... It led to many more problems than I anticipated, I thought it would simply cause a breakup... Wouldn't do it again, too much of a headache dealing with the fallout.
Would I cheat in my current relationship? Nope. I love and respect my husband too much to hurt him like that. If I was tempted to stray, I know enough now to examine what I'm missing from my marriage, and ask for it. If I can't get it from my marriage, that's one issue, but I'd still end the relationship before I cheated.
Gosh I seem rather "old"....... never cheated on a relationship ever.
 Man I need a life by comparison!
"The Universe is run by the complex interweaving of three elements: energy, matter, and enlightened self-interest." G'Kar-B5
My experience: Cheating is overrated... It totally backfired... The guys started fighting (I didn't want to be with either of them)... Way too much drama for me. And the sex wasn't even good, I felt too guilty to enjoy it. Never again. I've discovered I prefer the quiet life.
 (May 28, 2013 at 10:38 am)festive1 Wrote: I'll admit I cheated on a boyfriend when I was 17... I wanted to end the relationship, couldn't figure out how, and cheated... It led to many more problems than I anticipated, I thought it would simply cause a breakup... Wouldn't do it again, too much of a headache dealing with the fallout. cheat away, it's perfectly normal.
You are displaying less and less integrity dazzn.
"The Universe is run by the complex interweaving of three elements: energy, matter, and enlightened self-interest." G'Kar-B5
hmm.. yet you and society say that morals are anything one makes them?
I don't care if it is "normal" or not. To me it comes down to not wanting to hurt someone I care very deeply about. I know my husband would be hurt if I cheated, and I don't like to do things that purposefully hurt others. Sometimes it can't be avoided, but cheating is totally avoidable.
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