How can you say "take responsibility for your life"?

[Vosur]

I jsur don't always respond to them besides giving them a thumbs up.

*just

[Bad Wolf]

I used to like you but now I don't.

Fancy that, she stopped molly coddling and being sympathetic with you so you don't like her anymore!

[Losty]

The current thread is nothing more than a repetition of previous threads. So many people have responded kindly only to be ignored. It's hard not to grow weary. We all have our own lives and problems to deal with so it's extremely frustrating when we take our time to try to be considerate and helpful only to be ignored, or in some situations sworn at and insulted. I can only take so much of this attitude.

OP no one at this forum owes you anything. This isn't just a discussion forum, it's also a community. If you participate and also need some advice or just someone to lend an ear, we are here. We are like a big family here, we take care of each other. If you don't participate and are only here to create 257 posts which are all either you complaining or you insulting those who seek to give you the help you seem to be requesting, then well...I'm done. I hope you get banned.

I used to like you but now I don't. I don't ignore people's posts. I jsur don't always respond to them besides giving them a thumbs up. As displayed here peoples attitudes and relationship shifts drastically. I don't always trust someone who is nice to always be nice. I am the one who is weary here, not just you.

You used to like me? You have a funny way of showing it. When have you ever responded to anything I've said? I don't know why being nice makes a person untrustworthy, but I think you just enjoy the shit stirring which is why you only respond to people you perceive as rude. I honestly couldn't care less if you like me or not. I like you. I think you're probably a good guy who just needs a little medical assistance. I want to give you any advice I have to offer. I want to be compassionate towards you. I want to help you in any way I can, because well it's what I do. I try to help people. What I don't want is to see you turning into a hate/anger/whinefest spamming troll. I have asked before and I will ask again now, will you please please keep all of this stuff to one thread. Please don't create new threads of the same crap every day. When you want to vent all of your rage and hatred and disdain for everyone and everything post in in one of your many existing threads. Maybe even ask the mods if they'd be so kind as to merge the ones you already have. Start participating in the forum outside of whatever you want to call this. I don't think that's too much to ask. If you are weary then change what you're doing. If you continue to post thread after thread of this I will continue to report your threads until hopefully you will eventually be banned or stop doing it.

[FatAndFaithless]

Losty, the compassionate Valkyrie of Truthiness.

[DramaQueen]

I really wanna tease MLA. but unfortunately, he takes things seriously

[MusicLovingAtheist]

Jesus Christ learn how to quote properly!

1. You're right that it wasn't against my will. The point I was making, and didn't make myself clear, is that I didn't have a choice.

Well that's a stupid point because no body has a choice, its nonsensical.

2. As a kid you are all forced to do things you don't want to do.

Within reason, what a child does and doesn't want to do is irrelevant. They don't understand that these things that they are being forced to do is paving the way for their future and helping them develop skills that help them survive.

Maybe you can't remember but kids are taughtt to use manners, behave according to rules. I may not speak for everyone but I imagine that all kids are forced to behave opposite to how they feel. Adults are too.

How a child feels is irrelevant and often wrong. A child will throw a temper tantrum in the supermarket because they feel angry that they aren't allowed sweets. Obviously, as an adult you cannot behave this way in any situation, so the behaviour is condemned. Its for their own good.

3. It is a bad thing. It is a horrible thing. There is nothing worse than being bound to that mass cattle farm.

The mass cattle farm? Do you mean planet earth?

4. I do not empathize with your pro suicide point of view. When someone kill themself the ratio of good people goes down and the ratio of bad people goes up. I have friends who I care for dearly and I would be crushed if they killed themself.

I am not 'pro suicide'. I don't like the idea of suicide, I thinks it selfish and a permanet solution to a temporary problem. I was simple stating that if one doesn't want to live in the world, suicide is an option.

How dare you devalue the human life. It's the most important thing in the world.

And yet you seem to hate every human you've ever come across.

5. The people I am referring to are people on this forum. The only other people I interact with are my parents and I avoid doing that as much as possible.

I don't know what you are responding to since you didn't bother quoting properly.

6. Generalizing my life is just saying you don't take my feelings seriously. You think I am supposed to be happy, which I'm not. So it's a moot point.

Same again.

7. As I said in my last point, my problem is no one takes me seriously. I seriously dislike how much hate I get from people taking some sort of indirect hostility as being hostility towards them somehow.

The way you talk about people leads me to believe that you are openly hostile towards everyone. And generally when someone is hostile towards you, they respond in kind.

8. "That doesn't help" super advice.

Don't know what you are responding to.

9. Don't automatically assume this. I hate how whenever other people perceive me with a negative perspective and just write me off. I feel like no one values my life. You especially don't. You just said "you know where the door is". Again. How dare you.

Same again.

10. And the way they spend money on me isn't valuable to me and is none of my business?

Same again.

11. Friendly people. I have one friend. She's a girl on the internet who I talk to all the time who is understanding and sweet and we share a mutual respect for each other.

So your only friend is someone you haven't actually ever met? I'm sorry to say but that may be the reason she is your friend.

My problem with other people is they have no respect for me and don't care about my company.

Respect is earned. And be honest here, you wouldn't want to hang around someone who is depressed. It sounds mean but people like to hang around other people who are fun and exciting and make you laugh. You don't do any of those things.

12. I have tried multiple psychologists and they all suck.

How many is multiple? 2? 5? 10? Because I think if you have seen multiple shrinks, it may not be them that is the problem.

1. A great teacher once told me that there is no such thing as a stupid question, only stupid answers. I say, why should I be responsible for a life I didn't choose? You say that that's nonsense. You are saying nonsense.

2. Paving the way also means paving over everyone's hopes and dreams. Look at how society values us. The obedient get rewarded and the stragglers get punished. You don't seem like the kind of person who looks at the unique aspect of things. So far all you have said is 'dum de dum that's the way she goes'. Low self esteem is entirely society's fault because instead of being based on self discovery it's based on rewards, punishments, and a brutal, cookie cutter education system to mold nice shapes out of people like you who are eager to become a gear.

3. I mean school.

4. Nice. You're telling me to consider suicide. That is harassment.

5. I'm on my fucking phone. I can't quote properly.

6. I am responding In the order that you quoted me.

7. I can't stand it. That is so annoying. I do't want to talk opposite to how I feel.

8. Wwhatever. Just as well.

9. Like I said. The order of my responses is the order that you quoted me.

10. Christ. Look at what you said and how it correlates to what you said.

11. Frankly, I have nothing to say to that but mIm(*_*)mIm

12. Your advice sucks. I don't want to even be aware of yoy which is why I blocked you and so many other people.

[DramaQueen]

I had a bad day today at the university (mostly alone)

[Bad Wolf]

1. A great teacher once told me that there is no such thing as a stupid question, only stupid answers. I say, why should I be responsible for a life I didn't choose? You say that that's nonsense. You are saying nonsense.

How often do you beat your wife?

Do you see what I did there?

2. Paving the way also means paving over everyone's hopes and dreams.

We were talking about children. A child's hopes and dreams amount to being a pirate or a superhero.

Look at how society values us. The obedient get rewarded and the stragglers get punished. You don't seem like the kind of person who looks at the unique aspect of things. So far all you have said is 'dum de dum that's the way she goes'. Low self esteem is entirely society's fault because instead of being based on self discovery it's based on rewards, punishments, and a brutal, cookie cutter education system to mold nice shapes out of people like you who are eager to become a gear.

If it's societies fault that people have low self esteem, is it also societies fault when they have very high self esteem? And yes since the gears are the only thing keeping me fed and sheltered, I will do my part like everyone should. Without the gears, society would plunge into chaos, it would be like a post apolcalyptic film. Would you prefer that?

3. I mean school.

School as a cattle farm? So you view school as a place to take away hopes and dreams rather than a place of education that teaches you skills neccessary to survive in our world?

4. Nice. You're telling me to consider suicide. That is harassment.

No I am not, why can't you understand this? I was simply stating a fact. If you think that I am telling you to do anything, then that is your problem.

5. I'm on my fucking phone. I can't quote properly.

So am I and yet I can quote just fine, why can't you?

6. I am responding In the order that you quoted me.

And I don't remember the order or exactly what I said off the top of my head, thats why we use the quoting system, it is especially useful in large paragraphs such as these.

7. I can't stand it. That is so annoying. I do't want to talk opposite to how I feel.

Don't know what you are responding to

8. Wwhatever. Just as well.

Same again

9. Like I said. The order of my responses is the order that you quoted me.

And like I said, I can't remember that order off the top of my head.

10. Christ. Look at what you said and how it correlates to what you said.

Don't know what you are responding to

11. Frankly, I have nothing to say to that but mIm(*_*)mIm

Same again.

12. Your advice sucks. I don't want to even be aware of yoy which is why I blocked you and so many other people.

Same again.

[MusicLovingAtheist]

From this point on I am done responding to Bad Wolf. All he wants to do is harass me. Remind me to never talk to him again.

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I used to like you but now I don't. I don't ignore people's posts. I jsur don't always respond to them besides giving them a thumbs up. As displayed here peoples attitudes and relationship shifts drastically. I don't always trust someone who is nice to always be nice. I am the one who is weary here, not just you.

You used to like me? You have a funny way of showing it. When have you ever responded to anything I've said? I don't know why being nice makes a person untrustworthy, but I think you just enjoy the shit stirring which is why you only respond to people you perceive as rude. I honestly couldn't care less if you like me or not. I like you. I think you're probably a good guy who just needs a little medical assistance. I want to give you any advice I have to offer. I want to be compassionate towards you. I want to help you in any way I can, because well it's what I do. I try to help people. What I don't want is to see you turning into a hate/anger/whinefest spamming troll. I have asked before and I will ask again now, will you please please keep all of this stuff to one thread. Please don't create new threads of the same crap every day. When you want to vent all of your rage and hatred and disdain for everyone and everything post in in one of your many existing threads. Maybe even ask the mods if they'd be so kind as to merge the ones you already have. Start participating in the forum outside of whatever you want to call this. I don't think that's too much to ask. If you are weary then change what you're doing. If you continue to post thread after thread of this I will continue to report your threads until hopefully you will eventually be banned or stop doing it.

I appreciate your kindness. Sure. I could make less threads. That would make sense.

[DramaQueen]

Define harassment.