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Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
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(April 21, 2015 at 1:00 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: Are you the kind of person who has long-term relationships where your values will definitely clash and mean something? I don't see that as discrimination - I wouldn't marry someone who was a social conservative. Or have a long-term relationship with them. More importantly, I wouldn't want to try a romantic relationship with a person who believes I deserve to be tortured forever. Feels like that's kind of a dick move to start off day one of a relationship with.
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Yeah, that would kinda put a damper on the romance, although I can think of a few fetish games to play.
RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 1:32 pm
(This post was last modified: April 21, 2015 at 1:35 pm by robvalue.)
There are various things I decided are so important to me in a long term partner, that there's just no point in even trying to be with someone who doesn't fit them. I don't think that's "bigoted". I'm not talking about superficial things, although if people want to limit themselves by superficial requirements that's up to them as far as I'm concerned. You have no obligation or duty to date people. "Dating people equally" doesn't really make sense.
I don't look down on the people who don't meet the criteria, I just recognise we are incompatible. I found online dating was the best (and perhaps only!) thing for me, as I could write all this stuff on my profile. Feel free to send me a private message.
Please visit my website here! It's got lots of information about atheism/theism and support for new atheists. Index of useful threads and discussions Index of my best videos Quickstart guide to the forum (April 21, 2015 at 12:30 pm)Deidre32 Wrote:(April 21, 2015 at 12:16 pm)Dystopia Wrote: People who want to be bigoted always need an excuse to do it. Everyone rationalizes their behaviour, including people who discriminate others and people who think they possess souls of dragons and are controlled by reptilians. I don't know if the particular theists you were talking to are Christians but according to their bible they aren't supposed to date unbelievers Quote:2 Corinthians 6:14
I don't think I'd yoke anyone on a first date anyhow.
Does that passage imply not even being friends with us atheist twats? Depends on what you want it to say, I suppose. Feel free to send me a private message.
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April 21, 2015 at 2:01 pm
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(April 21, 2015 at 11:04 am)Judi Lynn Wrote: First of all let me enlighten you since your own lack of common sense caused you to post this first. Your first post should have been an introduction post. Not this one. Introductory posts are encouraged because it tells us a little bit about you. But hey... I can see you're bassackwards, so what's done is done.This. Otherwise, most newbs posts are tl'dr in my mind, even if they're just ten words long. I'm not crazy about strangers.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 21, 2015 at 2:03 pm
(This post was last modified: April 21, 2015 at 2:03 pm by Alex K.)
There was only one permitted way to yoke an infidel, and it usually entails long unpaid work hours in the agricultural sector.
The fool hath said in his heart, There is a God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
Psalm 14, KJV revised edition
(April 21, 2015 at 12:23 pm)Judi Lynn Wrote:(April 21, 2015 at 11:59 am)paulpablo Wrote: Well you're basically saying we have no idea who she is or where she is from but that doesn't excuse him slut shaming her. I don't see how disagreeing with someones lifestyle and talking about it on a forum is being disrespectful. If an atheist on this website posted that they were in a relationship with a Muslim and they didn't realize at first how serious they were about being a Muslim and their religion in general would you complain and call them islamophobic and be outraged over their disrespect of their Muslim boyfriend? I have a friend who's mother cheated on her husband with the husbands brother. Also the persons actual brother has had multiple stripper girlfriends and STDs. It doesn't matter that I'm giving you this info because you don't know me, you don't know my friend, it just simply doesn't matter. I could type down 4 random numbers and they will probably be someones bank card pin details and so again I'll be giving you private information about someone you don't know but it effects no one. Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them. Impersonation is treason. (April 21, 2015 at 2:18 pm)paulpablo Wrote: I don't see how disagreeing with someones lifestyle and talking about it on a forum is being disrespectful. And if you had an intimate conversation with a loved one in a private setting, and the first thing that loved one did is turn around and regurgitate the details of that conversation to a group of strangers in order to justify his breaking up with you, instead of talking to you directly... you don't see how any part of that might be disrespectful?
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