Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
| Poll: How would you feel if a gay person of either sex said they fancied you? This poll is closed. |
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| Flattered | 38 | 86.36% | |
| Offended | 0 | 0% | |
| Other | 6 | 13.64% | |
| Total | 44 vote(s) | 100% | |
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Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
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 Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
July 7, 2015 at 12:16 pm
(This post was last modified: July 7, 2015 at 12:17 pm by TubbyTubby.)
It's probably like the autistic spectrum? My wife is convinced I sit somewhere along that line as does everyone else. I would suggest we all sit along these spectrums in bisexuality and autism and there's really no real defined 'autistic person' or 'bi-sexual person' just a matter of degree (and self denial).
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July 7, 2015 at 12:19 pm
(This post was last modified: July 7, 2015 at 12:23 pm by Excited Penguin.)
I can't stop giving kudos, lol.
Thanks for clarifying that up. Actually the spectrum thing makes much more sense in my case. I definitely like girls more than boys, overall(if I like boys at all that way, which I'm not sure yet that I do). So, yeah, that's reassuring, thanks. No, cath[y], I'm not undergoing puberty, but thanks for having such a high opinion of my intellect.  RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
July 7, 2015 at 12:20 pm
(This post was last modified: July 7, 2015 at 12:21 pm by Catholic_Lady.)
(July 7, 2015 at 12:11 pm)Atheist_BG Wrote: Given that I'm the last person on Earth someone would fancy, I'd be flattered. why? (July 7, 2015 at 12:16 pm)Neimenovic Wrote:(July 7, 2015 at 12:09 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: but I can now say that I am 10000000000% heterosexual. Haha. I know. I was just making a point. 
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh 
Sure, I wouldn't find it a threat to my sexual identity or anything. It's happened before, if I were gay, he wouldn't be my type.
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July 7, 2015 at 12:23 pm
(This post was last modified: July 7, 2015 at 12:23 pm by Catholic_Lady.)
(July 7, 2015 at 12:19 pm)excitedpenguin Wrote: No, cath[y], I'm not undergoing puberty, but thanks for having such a high opinion of my intellect. Oh wow, I meant no disrespect, I apologize.  I don't remember seeing your posts before that one, so please don't take offense. I was responding to one isolated post, not to you as a member (since I don't know you), and was just trying to help.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
July 7, 2015 at 12:26 pm
(This post was last modified: July 7, 2015 at 12:27 pm by Excited Penguin.)
Actually I will be taking offense, seeing as that's for me to decide and your apologies don't affect my judgement in this matter at all. You have forever destroyed any possible friendship between us. Even if we meet again in a hundred billion years, on a planet from another galaxy, I still won't forgive you.
The North Remembers.  RE: Would you be flattered if a gay person said they fancied you?
July 7, 2015 at 12:29 pm
(This post was last modified: July 7, 2015 at 12:30 pm by Whateverist.)
(July 7, 2015 at 12:09 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:(July 7, 2015 at 11:45 am)excitedpenguin Wrote: Off topic, but I sometimes wonder if I'm bi. How can I find out, do you think? Should I just flirt with the guy the next time it happens and see what follows? I'll bet your husband likes to hear about those early girl on girl crushes. Amirte? My wife Lia who can pass for a dyke insists she is "10000000000% heterosexual" too. But I like to kid her about her crushes on her camp counselor, Helga. "Here Lia, you must know what it will be like with a baby, no? Let baby Helga show you."  (July 7, 2015 at 12:16 pm)TubbyTubby Wrote: It's probably like the autistic spectrum? My wife is convinced I sit somewhere along that line as does everyone else. I would suggest we all sit along these spectrums in bisexuality and autism and there's really no real defined 'autistic person' or 'bi-sexual person' just a matter of degree (and self denial). Yes, I totally agree. We're not toggle-monkeys, we're all on sliders. Feel free to send me a private message.
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