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RE: Anal Intercourse is a Dangerous Hobby
February 13, 2020 at 7:19 am
(February 13, 2020 at 7:15 am)Mr.wizard Wrote: You are responsible for your own sexual health, know going in that there is risk with sex and if you choose to take that risk then you bare the responsibility. If you contract an STD its not because other people are having anal sex, its because you didnt protect yourself or you got unlucky. I have had anal sex with evey girlfriend I have had since highschool and never had an STD because we were as safe as we could possibly be.
I feel like the OP was trying to create a slippery slope, he really wants to show anal sex is harmful so he can say homosexuality is harmful, just my opinion.
If you don't have the information to make informed choices you are heading for a fall. If the information is available and you don't use it shame on you. If you never get that information, shame on me. (Several of my classmates in high school dropped out because of "expanding waistline syndrome." My sister was the first one at that school to graduate with the condition. She refused demands to withdraw and the establishment backed down. From that date forward more women got their high school diplomas.
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RE: Anal Intercourse is a Dangerous Hobby
February 13, 2020 at 7:26 am
(February 13, 2020 at 7:19 am)Gawdzilla Sama Wrote: (February 13, 2020 at 7:15 am)Mr.wizard Wrote: You are responsible for your own sexual health, know going in that there is risk with sex and if you choose to take that risk then you bare the responsibility. If you contract an STD its not because other people are having anal sex, its because you didnt protect yourself or you got unlucky. I have had anal sex with evey girlfriend I have had since highschool and never had an STD because we were as safe as we could possibly be.
I feel like the OP was trying to create a slippery slope, he really wants to show anal sex is harmful so he can say homosexuality is harmful, just my opinion.
If you don't have the information to make informed choices you are heading for a fall. If the information is available and you don't use it shame on you. If you never get that information, shame on me. (Several of my classmates in high school dropped out because of "expanding waistline syndrome." My sister was the first one at that school to graduate with the condition. She refused demands to withdraw and the establishment backed down. From that date forward more women got their high school diplomas. I agree with you, however the information on sex and the risks is available these days, in fact you can find everything you want to know about sex and even things you don't want know by doing a quick google search.
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RE: Anal Intercourse is a Dangerous Hobby
February 13, 2020 at 7:30 am
(February 13, 2020 at 7:26 am)Mr.wizard Wrote: (February 13, 2020 at 7:19 am)Gawdzilla Sama Wrote: If you don't have the information to make informed choices you are heading for a fall. If the information is available and you don't use it shame on you. If you never get that information, shame on me. (Several of my classmates in high school dropped out because of "expanding waistline syndrome." My sister was the first one at that school to graduate with the condition. She refused demands to withdraw and the establishment backed down. From that date forward more women got their high school diplomas. I agree with you, however the information on sex and the risks is available these days, in fact you can find everything you want to know about sex and even things you don't want know by doing a quick google search.
Which is fine as far as it goes, but a lot of the young people most at risk for unplanned pregnancies may not have access to the internet. And even those that do may not be particularly interested in finding out those things on their own.
All in all, it seems the best way to present the information is in a classroom setting.
Boru
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RE: Anal Intercourse is a Dangerous Hobby
February 13, 2020 at 7:31 am
(February 13, 2020 at 7:26 am)Mr.wizard Wrote: (February 13, 2020 at 7:19 am)Gawdzilla Sama Wrote: If you don't have the information to make informed choices you are heading for a fall. If the information is available and you don't use it shame on you. If you never get that information, shame on me. (Several of my classmates in high school dropped out because of "expanding waistline syndrome." My sister was the first one at that school to graduate with the condition. She refused demands to withdraw and the establishment backed down. From that date forward more women got their high school diplomas. I agree with you, however the information on sex and the risks is available these days, in fact you can find everything you want to know about sex and even things you don't want know by doing a quick google search. Kathy graduated in 1975.
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RE: Anal Intercourse is a Dangerous Hobby
February 13, 2020 at 7:36 am
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(February 13, 2020 at 7:30 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: (February 13, 2020 at 7:26 am)Mr.wizard Wrote: I agree with you, however the information on sex and the risks is available these days, in fact you can find everything you want to know about sex and even things you don't want know by doing a quick google search.
Which is fine as far as it goes, but a lot of the young people most at risk for unplanned pregnancies may not have access to the internet. And even those that do may not be particularly interested in finding out those things on their own.
All in all, it seems the best way to present the information is in a classroom setting.
Boru
That's a good point, maybe too broad of an assumption on my part given the fact the every young person I see today has a smart phone permanently attached to their hand. I will say that we did have sex ed class when I was in high school and the line " You are responsible for your sexual health" is the one thing that stuck with me from that course.
(February 13, 2020 at 7:31 am)Gawdzilla Sama Wrote: (February 13, 2020 at 7:26 am)Mr.wizard Wrote: I agree with you, however the information on sex and the risks is available these days, in fact you can find everything you want to know about sex and even things you don't want know by doing a quick google search. Kathy graduated in 1975.
Ya of course during the 70's people didn't have the access, I wasn't implying that Kathy should of known better, only that kids today can get info on sex if they want it.
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RE: Anal Intercourse is a Dangerous Hobby
February 13, 2020 at 7:44 am
(February 13, 2020 at 7:36 am)Mr.wizard Wrote: (February 13, 2020 at 7:30 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: Which is fine as far as it goes, but a lot of the young people most at risk for unplanned pregnancies may not have access to the internet. And even those that do may not be particularly interested in finding out those things on their own.
All in all, it seems the best way to present the information is in a classroom setting.
Boru
That's a good point, maybe too broad of an assumption on my part given the fact the every young person I see today has a smart phone permanently attached to their hand. I will say that we did have sex ed class when I was in high school and the line " You are responsible for your sexual health" is the one thing that stuck with me from that course.
I'm not sure, but I suspect that a fairly small percentage of those young people you see are googling 'How To Prevent Chlamydia' or 'Low Cost Birth Control Near Me'. The availability of the information is only part of it - the other part is making sure the information gets to the kids. So, like I said - classrooms.
I think the best thing a teen could do after being told 'You are responsible for your sexual health' would be to ask, 'How do I do that, exactly?'
Boru
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RE: Anal Intercourse is a Dangerous Hobby
February 13, 2020 at 7:52 am
(February 13, 2020 at 7:36 am)Mr.wizard Wrote: (February 13, 2020 at 7:30 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: Which is fine as far as it goes, but a lot of the young people most at risk for unplanned pregnancies may not have access to the internet. And even those that do may not be particularly interested in finding out those things on their own.
All in all, it seems the best way to present the information is in a classroom setting.
Boru
That's a good point, maybe too broad of an assumption on my part given the fact the every young person I see today has a smart phone permanently attached to their hand. I will say that we did have sex ed class when I was in high school and the line " You are responsible for your sexual health" is the one thing that stuck with me from that course.
(February 13, 2020 at 7:31 am)Gawdzilla Sama Wrote: Kathy graduated in 1975.
Ya of course during the 70's people didn't have the access, I wasn't implying that Kathy should of known better, only that kids today can get info on sex if they want it.
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RE: Anal Intercourse is a Dangerous Hobby
February 13, 2020 at 8:11 am
(February 13, 2020 at 7:44 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: (February 13, 2020 at 7:36 am)Mr.wizard Wrote: That's a good point, maybe too broad of an assumption on my part given the fact the every young person I see today has a smart phone permanently attached to their hand. I will say that we did have sex ed class when I was in high school and the line " You are responsible for your sexual health" is the one thing that stuck with me from that course.
I'm not sure, but I suspect that a fairly small percentage of those young people you see are googling 'How To Prevent Chlamydia' or 'Low Cost Birth Control Near Me'. The availability of the information is only part of it - the other part is making sure the information gets to the kids. So, like I said - classrooms.
I think the best thing a teen could do after being told 'You are responsible for your sexual health' would be to ask, 'How do I do that, exactly?'
Boru
Also a good point, im sure they arent walking around googling that stuff. I guess my only point was if they want the information it is available.
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RE: Anal Intercourse is a Dangerous Hobby
February 13, 2020 at 8:16 am
(February 13, 2020 at 8:11 am)Mr.wizard Wrote: (February 13, 2020 at 7:44 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: I'm not sure, but I suspect that a fairly small percentage of those young people you see are googling 'How To Prevent Chlamydia' or 'Low Cost Birth Control Near Me'. The availability of the information is only part of it - the other part is making sure the information gets to the kids. So, like I said - classrooms.
I think the best thing a teen could do after being told 'You are responsible for your sexual health' would be to ask, 'How do I do that, exactly?'
Boru
Also a good point, im sure they arent walking around googling that stuff. I guess my only point was if they want the information it is available.
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RE: Anal Intercourse is a Dangerous Hobby
February 13, 2020 at 8:55 am
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(February 13, 2020 at 4:03 am)Agnostico Wrote: (February 12, 2020 at 11:28 pm)SUNGULA Wrote: Nope liberals are the only ones who promote comprehensive sex education .They are not preaching them they are informing people about them .So no they are not to blame.Conservatives by contrast want any discussion of sex to be taboo they are more too blame .Ignorance is death .As for your gay guy he's simply wrong i have been to plenty of LGBT events the topic is not taboo nor is unprotected sex promoted .
The gay man speaks from experience, u don't. So it's easy to know who is telling the truth
U can point the finger all u like but it doesn't change the fact that STDs have more than doubled in the last 20 years
That anal sex is 18 times more likely to contract an STD than vaginal sex
(February 12, 2020 at 11:17 pm)arewethereyet Wrote: Yeah - such a special newsflash or PSA from you...safe sex is a good alternative to unsafe sex.
None of us have ever heard that before.
You've done your part for passing along this astonishingly old bit of news.
Nitwit.
This is what I was talking about b4... Demonized for promoting safe sex and presenting facts that no one knew about.
A nitwit i am now apparently after i was called a homophobe, a bigot, a conservative a religious preacher
Further evidence of this topic being shut down Just because someone claims to speak from experience does not make it so ,I can make the same argument.And yes i has i have disputed that i'm simply pointing out the cause and the claim it's taboo is false .
Quote:This is what I was talking about b4... Demonized for promoting safe sex and presenting facts that no one knew about.
No you aren't
Quote:A nitwit i am now apparently after i was called a homophobe, a bigot, a conservative a religious preacher
As i said all three use this argument to demonize gay people
Quote:Further evidence of this topic being shut down
Nope
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