RE: Coming to terms with not finding romantic love
July 21, 2015 at 8:55 pm
(This post was last modified: July 21, 2015 at 8:57 pm by Metis.)
(July 21, 2015 at 8:46 pm)dyresand Wrote:(July 21, 2015 at 8:20 pm)Exian Wrote: Drys, I have a hard time following you, but I think I get what you're saying.
The fact that you're having these feelings means you'll keep fervently looking. You may not find your SO as soon as you'd like, but that will only make you look harder. And looking is all you need.
And when she/he breaks your heart and leaves you with nothing, not even an interest in findig someone, that's when you can safely say you're meant to be alone. Lol But you're a long ways from there, bud.
This had me thinking at my last break up its like... wait why the fuck am i trying anymore.
More or less its like you know i could waste my life looking or i could be doing things i want to.
I chose have fun and do things you like road rather than a drama filled one.
And what's to say you won't find someone doing the things you enjoy? Surely the odds are you're more likely to meet someone you hit off with at a venue with like minded people?
You might be surprised, sometimes relationships can crop up when you least expect them. While I was studying I worked part time at a bookstore owned by ultra-conservative Christians and ended up after a few months into it slowly teasing their son and now also my partner out of the closet, which they're still mad over and cost me a pretty good student job.
It may sound strange but don't worry so much about it, sure dating sites are always an option but you might find such opportunities pop up of their own accord. If you're comfortable in how you are the rest follows, and while it might not even seem a good idea you may well still want to chase it up anyway.
