It is surprising the number of people who have made just one post ever on this site and that one post was to this thread.
You may be right, I_A_N_M, that it is only when one's body and gender identification don't match that one fixates on being a gender. But I have to say I don't ever recall thinking about being masculine. In fact I remember thinking, since I'm male, whatever I do will be 'masculine'. So I wonder if transgender children ever have that thought? In other words, why not take oneself as the measure of what it is to be feminine or masculine?
You may be right, I_A_N_M, that it is only when one's body and gender identification don't match that one fixates on being a gender. But I have to say I don't ever recall thinking about being masculine. In fact I remember thinking, since I'm male, whatever I do will be 'masculine'. So I wonder if transgender children ever have that thought? In other words, why not take oneself as the measure of what it is to be feminine or masculine?